girl help: Eye contact so I know it’s a show of interest and all that but theres this girl that I haven’t got a chance to talk to yet. - Help.com

Depends on what kind of girl she is. Only way to know for sure is to talk to her.

if i am not sure if a guy is interested in me or if the guy has never talked to me, then i pretend i don notice or ignore.
did u talk to her?

No I’ve had a few chances while talking to my friends but didn’t leave them to talk to her.

ugh. u know i have almost same situations.
there is a guy who kept looking at me several times and i think he is interested in me. but it’s at a language school and students and other teachers are watching so we have never talked.
The guy looked at me and our eyes matched but still no talk.

many girls want guys to talk to them. you know.
Try a bit and see how she reacts!!

Ummm good luck with the language school. Idk she may just be a flirt, but yeah your right. The bottom line is, I’ll defiantly talk to her.

nah i am not interested in him anymore. (too late, you know)
so Good luck!!!!!

first off definately talk to her asap, if you keep staring shell think your creepy, unless you say something, and be prepared for the worst

destabrook8 wrote:
be prepared for the worst

lol!!

Anonymous wrote:
nah i am not interested in him anymore. (too late, you know)so Good luck!!!!!

thanks

destabrook8 wrote:
first off definately talk to her asap, if you keep staring shell think your creepy, unless you say something, and be prepared for the worst

I’m not worry about the worst

thats good, then why havent you tried to talk to her, if you stare at her you obviously like her, and if your not afraid just go for it, i just said be prepared for the worst because if shes been making eye contact back, but hasnt said anything to you, then she probably doesnt like you, girls have a way of forcing interaction if they want it, they are usually not afraid to go for it, especially when they are getting signs, and they read the signs well

yes girls read signs very well, and guys basically suck at it unfortunately. Anyway I’m not worried about getting shut down I’m worried about embarrassing myself, but the more I think of it the more I’m just gonna wing.

got another question… apparently I’ve been told by multiple ppl that I look very confident, by my walk, talk, whatever. In reality my confidence is not as high as others seem to think. But does the look of confidence throw mixed messages when you don’t approach.

what do you mean “mixed message”? what and what?

I guess I mean disinterest

to expand on the above. Confidence can shows a health social life (i think) while not talking to her will show disinterest. (i think…again)

you are not staring at her like a creep, right?
did you smile?

don think too much!! if you talk to her then she will know what the sign was.
HAVE CONFIDENCE!!! lol

naa I don’t stare like creep. Good point I gotta smile more though.

When a guy smile, it takes my heart away ALWAYS!! very dangerous!!!
so go ahead smile more!

cool thanks for like the millionth time lol. I gotta go gotta get my beauty sleep ;)