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I need help.

Two of my friends, that are very close to me and are girls, like me more than just friends.

And I already have a girlfriend.

What do I do?

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

i think you need to start thinking before you go on kissing everybody and than going like “ohh what to do”…

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brittany. ;D offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
i think you need to start thinking before you go on kissing everybody and than going like “ohh what to do”…

Oh, thanks. But that doesn’t solve the problem at hand and I do not do kissing everybody.

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bickling7 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

try it to see if u like it. if thats not the right path then be honest with them and tell that u don’t feel that way about them.

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brittany. ;D offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

bickling7 wrote:
try it to see if u like it. if thats not the right path then be honest with them and tell that u don’t feel that way about them.

I don’t…

I have a girlfriend already.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

If they really care about you, they’ll respect your relationship and you can all be friends without incident.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

foreverxgone wrote:

bickling7 wrote:
try it to see if u like it. if thats not the right path then be honest with them and tell that u don’t feel that way about them.
I don’t…I have a girlfriend already.

Just for future reference… this is the kind of info you should have put in the original post.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Xeno Dragon wrote:
If they really care about you, they’ll respect your relationship and you can all be friends without incident.

One already kissed me and the other cries to me all the time about how depressed she is because I’m in love.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Then they aren’t very good friends.

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

“Alright. So, I have a girlfriend and I’d die for her. Then, I have another girl, my girlfriend’s best friend, and I kiss her all the time and I really, really like her. But there’s this other girl, and she kissed me today and wants to kiss me more. And then there’s another girl who talks to be a lot and she has a crush on me. And finally, a boy, who has fallen head over heels for me…” hmm sound familiar :P

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brittany. ;D edited this post 11 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

I need help.

Two of my friends, that are very close to me and are girls, like me more than just friends.

What do I do?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
“Alright. So, I have a girlfriend and I’d die for her. Then, I have another girl, my girlfriend’s best friend, and I kiss her all the time and I really, really like her. But there’s this other girl, and she kissed me today and wants to kiss me more. And then there’s another girl who talks to be a lot and she has a crush on me. And finally, a boy, who has fallen head over heels for me…” hmm sound familiar :P

Mhm. But I just want to know about these two, thanks.

Xeno Dragon wrote:
Then they aren’t very good friends.

Yeah, I was thinking that. But I don’t just want to ditch them or anything.

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

this is what you call life , this is not a fairytale, so somebody must get hurt, so basically you have to choose which girl you like more and go for it and tell the other i really think you are a really gr8 person but i really like “X” as i hope the best for you. i hope we can still be friend cause you mean so much for me bla bla bla ^_^

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
this is what you call life , this is not a fairytale, so somebody must get hurt, so basically you have to choose which girl you like more and go for it and tell the other i really think you are a really gr8 person but i really like “X” as i hope the best for you. i hope we can still be friend cause you mean so much for me bla bla bla ^_^

But I don’t like either of them! But I don’t want to hurt them [more] because they’re my best friends!

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

ok than you go with the second like of i really think you are a special person , but i dont see myself with you as more than best friend yet i really find you sexy , kidding about the sexy part ^_^… get the pic ?

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brittany. ;D offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Yes, I suppose.

Haha. I’m sure my girlfriend would be mad if I called them sexy…

No, actually, I’m sure she wouldn’t care.

Haha. She’s really chill like that.

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

foreverxgone wrote:
Yes, I suppose.Haha. I’m sure my girlfriend would be mad if I called them sexy…No, actually, I’m sure she wouldn’t care. Haha. She’s really chill like that.

you look sexy = flirting

than going like but cant be more than best friend = not so sexy

you would fuick her mind lol poor girl just tell them
” i really think you are a special person and you are the best friend i could ever have but i dont think we can be more than best friends bla bla bla ”

good luck btw ^_^

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brittany. ;D offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Thanksyou.

kthxbai.

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

foreverxgone wrote:
Thanksyou.kthxbai.

your most welcome
i have no idea what the hell the third word means ^_^

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tricky online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

ok got it now :D lol

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brittany. ;D offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Hahaha.

‘Kay, thanks. Bye.

Lol.

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