Sometimes it feels like the fact that my mother raised me right is a curse. - Help.com

haha, I know what you mean in a way.. my mom was always telling us to clean this..clean that. And now that I’m a little older, I’m always organizing something. haha, my boyfriend is always telling me ” Kayla, just sit down.. its clean enough” .

But, I’d rather it be this way that the opposite way. I mean, think about the morals you’ve been taught.. would you rather have the other way? Probably not. You can always tone something down, but its really hard to gain something you never had.

I wrote my mother a nasty letter telling her about what a horrible job she did in raising me. Amazingly, a couple of days later she passed away. I wondered if she had read the letter before she died. When I was sorting through her stuff, I found the letter — opened. Now I have to live with the guilt that she went to her grave with my stinging criticism burned into her mind. But then again, it’s really her fault because she raised me to be mean-spirited. Okay, I feel better now.