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I want to meet a decent down to earth girl who shares my interests.

Now, I’ve tried the bar scene, clubs ect… and myspace and the like (no one ever hits me up(I’m a decent enough looking guy I think)) Any suggestions?

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

well according to your avatar a little scary

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Most decent girls don’t hang out at clubs or bars… and myspace is a bad bet. Look in the grocery store, parks, etc. for non-party-crazy girls. How old are you? Try a college club or something.

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wil offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Join a tramping club. Tramping girls are pretty down to earth :).

You could try being the one to hit them up? instead of waiting for them to make the moves/

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Cannonball Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

if you are really looking for a relationship, someone to share your life with, don’t go to clubs and bars and such..you most likely won’t find her there.
i agree with Kuvri..go to everyday places..the places you already go! except look out for a nice girl, flirt a bit, whatever, and see what happens.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

IF you know where, please tell us!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

eww…. :/

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
Most decent girls don’t hang out at clubs or bars… and myspace is a bad bet. Look in the grocery store, parks, etc. for non-party-crazy girls. How old are you? Try a college club or something.

I like dragons… is it that scary?

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Jonno offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

opps wrong qoute…

libragirl12 wrote:
well according to your avatar a little scary

I like dragons… is it that scary? (there we go)

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Jonno wrote:

Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
Most decent girls don’t hang out at clubs or bars… and myspace is a bad bet. Look in the grocery store, parks, etc. for non-party-crazy girls. How old are you? Try a college club or something.

I like dragons… is it that scary?

noo… i like dragons too. getting a tat of one soon.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

How much money do you have?

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Cannonball Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

tommy2ton wrote:
your asking something that is too unreasonable, let go of your standards for a night, and when the chips are down, you’ll ******* eat a fat chick.

hmm..someone sounds either bitter or like an a**hole..or both.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

$25.00 not decent (about 5 minutes of decency)

$50.00 semi-decent (15 minutes of decency)

$100.00 decent (for about 30 to 60 minutes)

$500.00 very decent (for about 4 hours)

$1000.00 super decent (for about a day)

$5000.00 She will pretend to be decent for about a week (Think Pretty Woman)

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
$25.00 not decent (about 5 minutes of decency)

$50.00 semi-decent (15 minutes of decency)

$100.00 decent (for about 30 to 60 minutes)

$500.00 very decent (for about 4 hours)

$1000.00 super decent (for about a day)

$5000.00 She will pretend to be decent for about a week (Think Pretty Woman)

I love how you have the rates memorized ;)

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

$10 She will give you a decent look!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

$5 She will make you think she’s decent!

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Jonno offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

i dont have spare money. I’m a college student and all my money is dedicated to bills and most my free time to school and work. But the time I do have I hate spending it alone, I need to find “her”!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:

Jonno wrote:
Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
Most decent girls don’t hang out at clubs or bars… and myspace is a bad bet. Look in the grocery store, parks, etc. for non-party-crazy girls. How old are you? Try a college club or something.

I like dragons… is it that scary?

noo… i like dragons too. getting a tat of one soon.

i have a dragon tatoo on my back…

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

If you’re in college, that’s the perfect place to find a smart girl! join an intramural sports team and some interesting clubs.

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Jonno offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

noo… see i go to itt tech its umm… not to many girls. lots of nerdy dudes

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Nerdy guys are the best, :)

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Jonno wrote:
noo… see i go to itt tech its umm… not to many girls. lots of nerdy dudes

I hear that if you dress up the nerdy dudes and shave them, they can pass for girls. Not bad looking either! At least that’s what I have been told by my friends at MIT in Massachussetts!

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

down to earth girls are instinct hehehe :D lol

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:

Jonno wrote:
noo… see i go to itt tech its umm… not to many girls. lots of nerdy dudes

I hear that if you dress up the nerdy dudes and shave them, they can pass for girls. Not bad looking either! At least that’s what I have been told by my friends at MIT in Massachussetts!

Thanks for making me throw up my lunch….

lol are there any college around you that have girls? you could creepily hang out on their campus :) or in stores around there

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

So you want someone that will hang around while you are a school and work, and be there only when you have spare time, but in your spare time you have no money to show this love a nice time? I don’t want to sound harsh, but I think your needs are harsh. Women are not on this earth solely to company for us men. I understand being alone and lonely, but please make sure you have the right perspectives

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Susanville, CA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

libragirl12 wrote:
Nerdy guys are the best, :)

lol i second that :P

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

:)

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Cannonball Girl wrote:

libragirl12 wrote:
Nerdy guys are the best, :)
lol i second that :P

Yes, we, er, they have huge, humoungous, gargantuan………………imaginations!

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

I know
Heheheheehe

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Cannonball Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

exactly hahaha

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

libragirl12 wrote:
I knowHeheheheehe

You are such a dork!

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I can’t help it

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

libragirl12 wrote:
I can’t help it

I cannot help but love you for being such a dork! :).

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

littlenick, i seem to remember you have a similar sentence for girls with big brains!! :P

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

now if you would just wear thoes nerd glasses I bought you Hmmmmmmmmmmm oooooooooo

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
littlenick, i seem to remember you have a similar sentence for girls with big brains!! :P

I like girls with brains! Yes, big brains specially when they fall out of the girl’s blouse!

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I like nerds with big imaginations!
LOL
:P

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

This is me! white and nerdy!
[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xEzGIuY7kw]

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Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:

Kuvri (yodaluv12) wrote:
littlenick, i seem to remember you have a similar sentence for girls with big brains!! :P

I like girls with brains! Yes, big brains specially when they fall out of the girl’s blouse!

lol that’s the one!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

This is me. white and nerdy!
[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

We cannot post any more youtube videos? wtf?

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Ahhhh I wanted to see you :(

I bet you are nice and pasty white and extra nerdy though
Ohhh so yummy :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

libragirl12 wrote:
Ahhhh I wanted to see you :(I bet you are nice and pasty white and extra nerdy thoughOhhh so yummy :)

You just have to use your imagination! :)

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

I only have big brains

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

you are the one with the imagination remember?
LOL

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Richard cor de lyon wrote:
So you want someone that will hang around while you are a school and work, and be there only when you have spare time, but in your spare time you have no money to show this love a nice time? I don’t want to sound harsh, but I think your needs are harsh. Women are not on this earth solely to company for us men. I understand being alone and lonely, but please make sure you have the right perspectives

I don’t know what to say to that… you took the words directly and made me sound like a total ***hole. thanks :)

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Jonno offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

you assume too much, sir

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

No… in fact I assumed too little. You are correct in your evaluation that I took what you wrote. I did not write it…you did. If what you wrote makes you sound like an a**hole, then perhaps you should write more explicitly.

Jonno wrote:
i dont have spare money. I’m a college student and all my money is dedicated to bills and most my free time to school and work. But the time I do have I hate spending it alone, I need to find “her”!

after you re-read that, doesn’t it sound like the words of a desperate man, who is looking for someone only to fill his empty moments?

Sorry if you were offended. I’ll try to assume more in your posts from now on.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Ouch!
I think Richard is right :(
Sorry

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 22 minutes after post)

smart girls are incredibly sexy!

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