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ok, i really need some help…

i REEEEEEAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYY like this girl at school. I know for a fact she likes me too. I know this because last weekend we went to a party together and kinda cuddled while we were watching a movie. My problem, though, is that at school she sometimes seems like she wants me to come up to her and start a conversation but i never know what to say! Also, i’m not sure how long exactly we should be flirting before one of us gets the courage up to ask the other out.(i only say this because SHE invited ME to the party :] )

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Anonymous #
4 years, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Just improvise when you talk! Seriously, I do it with my girlfriend in the halls all the time. It’s easy. You’ll be chatting well in no time.

And just ask her out already.

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djphayesste offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i was the same in ur room look in frint of the mirror and speak to it as if its her and dont say something that will make her laugh at you and embarrasss u

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

dude your already in bro, that girl already has been thinking about you naked and sh*t. when she aint lookin just kiss her she might grab your willy and pull it out right there!

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Anonymous #
4 years, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

zdg wrote:
dude your already in bro, that girl already has been thinking about you naked and sh*t. when she aint lookin just kiss her she might grab your willy and pull it out right there!

WTF? I highly doubt any of that is ever going to happen.

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zdg offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (30 minutes after post)

lol thats cuz im kidding, but i was serious about the IN part, dude she totally digs you already. so just pick up the other shovel and start to dig back. eventually you guys will be alone in that hole together if you know what im sayin dude!

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Anonymous #
4 years, 6 months ago (38 minutes after post)

zdg wrote:
lol thats cuz im kidding, but i was serious about the IN part, dude she totally digs you already. so just pick up the other shovel and start to dig back. eventually you guys will be alone in that hole together if you know what im sayin dude!

haha, but what exactly should i do to “dig back” lol

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Just be yourself, a girl likes nothing more then a guy who has confidence, you show her your confident enough to be her “man” shes all yours.

ask her to walk her to a class or two ya know. give you guys time to hold hands.which you should do! just do it. and just ya know. bullcrap on the way to class. and then once you guys get to talkin somemore. plan an outting together. and thats when you pull out the kiss card.

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4 years, 6 months ago (54 minutes after post)

zdg wrote:
Just be yourself, a girl likes nothing more then a guy who has confidence, you show her your confident enough to be her “man” shes all yours.

ask her to walk her to a class or two ya know. give you guys time to hold hands.which you should do! just do it. and just ya know. bullcrap on the way to class. and then once you guys get to talkin somemore. plan an outting together. and thats when you pull out the kiss card.

i cant drive yet, but she can. Do you think it would be weird if i asked her to do something with me but then asked her to drive?(im a sophmore, she’s a junior)

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jebus-jackso offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (55 minutes after post)

I Say From A Girls Point Of View That You Should Maybe Spend Time With Her At Dinner/Break And Try And Get To Know Her Friends She Will Think You Are Trying Which Is Good … And Then Just Pluck Up The Courage To Ask Her Out Maybe Shes A Bit Traditional And Wants You To Ask Her Out.

Best Wishes!

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4 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

jebus-jackso wrote:
I Say From A Girls Point Of View That You Should Maybe Spend Time With Her At Dinner/Break And Try And Get To Know Her Friends She Will Think You Are Trying Which Is Good … And Then Just Pluck Up The Courage To Ask Her Out Maybe Shes A Bit Traditional And Wants You To Ask Her Out.

Best Wishes!

why do you write always starting with capitals?

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jebus-jackso offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

I Dont Know I Just Also Press Shift Its Just A Habbit!

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Anonymous #
4 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

haha. weird…

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mogilali offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (6 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Well, just think of a clever way to ask her out! piece of cake

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Anonymous #
4 years, 6 months ago (1 day after post)

mogilali wrote:
Well, just think of a clever way to ask her out! piece of cake

piece of cake? thats exactly my problem! i dont know a clever way to ask her out!

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 week after post)

say will u go out with me i really like u and i think ure pretty (or sexy pick one that u perfur for ure age) thats a peice a cake thats how boys ask me out and i think it hot

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