After reading a thread about a guy who cheated on his girlfriend I got to thinking…

U.Nirk

After reading a thread about a guy who cheated on his girlfriend I got to thinking…

My girlfriend cheated on me and I’ve kinda lost all trust for her. All trust for her I have now is when I’m around her I feel like she wouldn’t do it but when I’m not she could..

Maybe it’s wrong, but I can’t help but think I shouldn’t be with her anymore.
It wasn’t just once either which is the thing, but without her I don’t have any other friends as I’ve fallen out with them, and the only friends I have are hers and herself so I stayed with her trying to love her still..

Am I doing the right thing for myself?

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Leopardfly 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

There is no reason on this earth why you should stick with a girl who has cheated on you even once, let alone multiple times. And if she’s your only friend, all I can say is that it’s time to make new ones.

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U.Nirk 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I have some which live in a different town, but that’s when I’m there for a couple days - not in the town where I live. Don’t get along with people at college because they all talk about others behind their backs and I can’t stand it..

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Leopardfly 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Still, I think you would be doing the right thing. I don’t know you, but I can already tell that she doesn’t deserve you (or really care for you, since she cheated on you).

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U.Nirk 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

It’s hard to tell what I want too. She’s such a great person. I’ll have a long hard think about it anyway. thanks. :D

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I think you are punishing yourself by staying with her. Unless she is willing to go to counseling you should live. Make new friends and start a fresh new single life. You might be surprised on what you have missed while being with her. Never give your all to a person. You should always have a back up plan just in case the relationship doesnt work

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

*Leave not live lol

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U.Nirk 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

skyy wrote:
I think you are punishing yourself by staying with her. Unless she is willing to go to counseling you should live. Make new friends and start a fresh new single life. You might be surprised on what you have missed while being with her. Never give your all to a person. You should always have a back up plan just in case the relationship doesnt work

Thanks. I never thought of it this way! :D

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Well im glad i could help :). Seriously though you should leave her and find someone who will treat you with the same respect you are willing to give her. Its not right that you are being faithful while she is living her life not worrying what you are doing whenever you two are a part.

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U.Nirk 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

I’ll definetely keep this in mind. :) thank you skyy

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

No prob buddy :)

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