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No i aint gay, i have a girlfriend. im only really body shy

HEY.. HOW TALL ARE YOU?

10 stone=63 kilogrammes= 140lbs

Why do you want to be really skinny? Ewwww…

lol, thats actually a question i dont know, i think just jelous from other guys. a few times at school i get called fat and im lyk :s. (i aint gay, im straight)

emm, i dunno how tall i am.. i gotta measure

Hey there, it’s not about being skinny. It’s about being a honorable guy and accepting yourself and others.

Stop looking at yourself and turn your eyes and thoughts outwards. Work hard at school/sports/hobbies - Make goals in these areas and meet them. Reach out to those less fortunate through volunteer work. These are things that will make you feel good about yourself.

but its something i really want, i cant turn my head from it.

Seriously time to start wanting something else! I think you need to acknowledge there may be something off with your thinking in regard to this issue.

hmm, i think its actually because i dont go out much, actually… i suppose you can call me a hermit.
I am going to try and go out much more often with my friends and keep myself in shape.
I got a tutor in PSE (Personal Social Education) about health. I got taught that being a hermit indoors alot can lead to an issue of being board, which leads to eating problems.

Right now i am skinny, though i think its mainly the confidence i need to gather

Yea. You need to be more confident on yourself. Do something that you’re really good at. I want to lose weight but it’s not because of someone else, it’s because of me and I think I am not living a healthy life!

THATS IT! i dont think im eating a propper diet, i think im eating too much and abusing my healthy life!

lol, you dont need to lose wait PaDLe, your pretty :p

Get involved in some sports so you will get out more.

I think I really need to change my avatar to something that looks like me now! that was before I gained 5 kilogrammes!!! I just need to get my BMI index to be normal again!!

And I love to eat too!!!

no what, sometimes its about how others see you.. i see you as a buitifull faced angle. lol

and its attatched to you and so will never change.
nomatter how much you gain, you always have your face.

No wonder you have a girlfriend…

I’m sure girls adore you just the way you are!

thanks

Thanks!!! *Blushing*

Where are you from?

no offense but I think you really should fix your spelling :D

And, you look cute yourself!!!

lol, look at the lil map thing at the side… its my exact location

my girlfriend is with me because she likes my humour and attitude…
not my looks,
sadly not all attractive girls are not like that.

I have added you to my friends list. I often encounter posts like “how do I get a girlfriend?” or “how do I get a girl to notice me?” I’m not sure my advice to those guys is good but I bet you could help them out. I will invite you to those posts.

Ah, for girls attraction is mostly in the mind. If they like you as a person, they will want you!

Girls that just want a body are really not the girls you want anyway.

okay, i will help as much as i can.

yeah… For me, I would prefer the attitude. :D

I love to look at cute guys but that’s all i do. Just look and I am very sure that they are not the ones I want unless they have all the qualities I’m looking for.

lol, and i bet a nice body is a part of that

god, yous girls are wierd!

hahaha.. I know. I think you should build your muscles!!! :D

lol… im gonna close this topic now i think,
thanks guys for all the help and support.
with all of the people backing me up here, i have gained more confidence on my body appearance. Thanks PaDLe aswell for your help x LU

cheers

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