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I lost my father almost a month and a half ago. I lost my baby last Tuesday. The day before that my grandmother died, and you probobly won’t believe me, but the day after I lost my baby, my Uncle died. Now I’m losing my house to. (which led me to my last post) I have 5 more days to come up with the money or we have to leave. My husband, who is only 27 has permanent brain damage and can’t work. I’m still recovering from the two surgery’s I’ve had since I lost the baby. I can’t go back to work untill next week. I’ve been thinking that most times, when you need help, the best thing to do is give help. So, I’ve been tyring to help around here. But I have found it to be very hard trying to help people find ways to cope, when I am not. But I know that we all have to. We all have to find a way to keep going. I have two awesome kids I have to be strong for. I have a great husband that I have to be strong for, I don’t know how to do it except for one minute at a time, one step at a time. I think we all can find the strength to take one more step, one more minute…I pray for us all…
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Now I know who you are you were in the “I Love You” post and said that you in need fo some love right now. Wow now I know why. I’ll pray for you for sure. The best thing you can do right is go to the Lord also talk with folks at your church as well
Wow you are fighting through a tough time at the moment, you are right to keep going but make sure you allow yourself some calm moments and time to grieve for your losses. My thoughts are with you, keep taking your steps.
Listen you gotta keep going but there is one thing you need to know through all of this that God is with you and He loves you very much. Here is something thats helped me through some darks moments.
There is not much time for greiving, or I’ll be doing it on the street. But thanks. I just wanted to post again to let people know that there is always someone out there hurting, someone in pain, and sometimes through finding those people you may find that not only are you not alone, but there is always something left for you to do.
myairbournesange wrote: There is not much time for greiving, or I’ll be doing it on the street. But thanks. I just wanted to post again to let people know that there is always someone out there hurting, someone in pain, and sometimes through finding those people you may find that not only are you not alone, but there is always something left for you to do.
Place your trust in Him and He will heal your broken heart.
There may not be time for grieving but you can always give yourself a moment. If you are going to have to go through all these things and keep going you need to give yourself some breaks even if they are only very short.
hank you for your post though, it has made me appreciate more the things I have got at the moment.
I have been trying to sell furniture and stuff around the house to come up with the money, and I have sold some. I was able to sell my couch, my kitchen table and chairs, and some other things, so I gave hime $200 yesterday. We owe $600 now, which I am closer thank god, but I don’t have much left to get rid of. As far as talking to my landlord, I have begged! He gave us a two week eviction notice from the courts and we have 5 days till we have to leave.
My heart truly goes out to you. You are in my prayers. hang in there for your kids and husband. They need you and you will be rewarded for all this one day. Trust the Lord. he is always there even though in times like that you have described it is hard to hold on to your faith. God love you. Sharon