how do you get over a feeling of doubt?

LiLsexithang1

how do you get over a feeling of doubt?

? sometimes im sure and the next im clueless..

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Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

What r u doubting?

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

my relationship…

LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

sometimes i think he is all about me and thats it for him…but then i wonder is that really wut he thinks or is that just me wanting to believe that

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

u doubting that he likes u?

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

sometimes..he never acts like that but you never know

LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i think its me doubting myself honestly…my problem is that i was always in relationships that were ok. i never really cared. if they worked out they worked out if they didnt then they didnt it was never a big deal to me. now that i found someone who i actually care about and think the world of im afraid that he might be like ehhh wutever no big deal.

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Well, nothing to do but enjoy you’re time together and see what comes of it!

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

very true but im afraid im gunna jepordize the relationship by always being in doubt
i think i need to just get over it lol..

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Just put those feelings aside. Turn your thoughts to other things.

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

aww thank u soo much i am going to try and do that i do have one more question though…do u think its weird that he still talks to his ex girlfriend

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Yup. I wouldn’t allow that. I know some people r ok with that but I’m sure not.

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PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

It’s not weird at all!! :D I still talk to my ex, as a matter of fact, we’re best friends!!

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

i dunno im a little confused

PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Well, you must make sure of their relationship, try and ask him. Tell him how you feel. :D

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chunkymove 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

LiLsexithang1 wrote:
i think its me doubting myself honestly…my problem is that i was always in relationships that were ok. i never really cared. if they worked out they worked out if they didnt then they didnt it was never a big deal to me. now that i found someone who i actually care about and think the world of im afraid that he might be like ehhh wutever no big deal.

you got it in one.

So what exactly is bugging you? Is it that for the first time you feel you might like them more than they like you?

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

yea but i also dont wanna come off as if im overbaring ya know…i dont like to be controlled and i dont wanna come off and say “oh you cant talk to this one cuz im insecure!”

LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

chuck….my problem is that i acually care this time and im kinda nervous that im gunna mess things up

PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Just go with the flow. :D

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chunkymove 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

hhaha, be funny if you could that honest, would make a good comedy sketch

How long have you been with him? Does he act in any way, or is it all in your head?

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

honestly i think its all in my head..he is nothing but wonderful to me. honestly i couldnt ask for a better person. hes amazing. i really think its all in my head. we’ve been together about 6 months..my overall theory is i need to just get over it!!hahaha

PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Well, the feeling of doubt will always be there. You are just afraid of losing him. Why don’t you try to just be happy with him and make him happy too!! :D

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LiLsexithang1 6 #
New York, NY, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

i definitley will!! thank u!!!

PaDLe 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

No prob. :D

Be confident about yourself, and if there’s any doubt, consult him.
I’m sure he don’t want you to feel that way. :D

All the best to you!

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chunkymove 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

LiLsexithang1 wrote:
honestly i think its all in my head..he is nothing but wonderful to me. honestly i couldnt ask for a better person. hes amazing. i really think its all in my head. we’ve been together about 6 months..my overall theory is i need to just get over it!!hahaha

LOL.

Do you guys have plans for the future? I mean, things like are you both studying at teh same place? If you really like him, what happens when he get a job interstate? I think these are the sorts of things you could your attention on, as its clear your got the liking each other sorted

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