this makes me sooo mad.

sunshinealik

this makes me sooo mad.

ok.
me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and we are VERY close.
we spend like everyday together.
and….everythings good….except when it comes to school.
when were at school, he IGNORES me….like full out ignores me.
and it pisses me off…
its like he’s ashamed to be around me?
what should i do?

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kforhel 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

you should talk to her straight on this…

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

I would bring this up to him and see what he says. If he thinks its not a big deal then you should say well its a big deal to you because if you can spend everyday with me you should be able to be with me in public (school) as well

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sunshinealik 2 #
Denver, NC, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

i do tell him that it bothers me…and he’s like ‘i don’t ignore you. i just never see you’
which is a lie cause he walks by me like 4 times a day.

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Ok that didnt come out the way i wanted it to lol. But i would confront him about this issue because i would definitely be a little aggravated, ok very aggravated, if my bf ignored me while at school but showed me unconditional love at home.

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

sunshinealik wrote:
i do tell him that it bothers me…and he’s like ‘i don’t ignore you. i just never see you’which is a lie cause he walks by me like 4 times a day.

LOL this happened to me before. The guy that i like atm would walk right past me and when i would bring it up to him he would say i didnt see you. But to me it looked like he glanced right at me then kept it moving. He probably didnt see me but i thought he did. Is he near or far when you see him?

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sunshinealik 2 #
Denver, NC, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

he always sees me.
i know he does.
and when i wave for him to come over to me, if he does ever come, he’s like ‘dude. i gotta get going’ whenever we have like 6 more mins of break.

kforhel 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Hay if you are taking to him on this….. be open as much as you can…
you can take eny excuse he gives you if you no he is lying…..

Help me with: Boring man………its too much boring.

sunshinealik 2 #
Denver, NC, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

kforhel wrote:
Hay if you are taking to him on this….. be open as much as you can…you can take eny excuse he gives you if you no he is lying…..

i don’t understand…

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Make him feel your pain by explaining exactly how you feel. Yea i would be pissed because when we walk eachother to class we dont leave eachother til the last min. So yea if we have like 6 even 4 mins i would expect him to talk to me esp if we are having a good convo or holding eachother (ok ignore my sentimental statements im just missing someone right now) :(

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sunshinealik 2 #
Denver, NC, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

well, he just don’t get it.
and, it bother me alot.
cause i’ve had my fair share of secret relationships…
and i finally have someone i can actually tell ppl im dating.

and, it makes me feel like crap when he refuses to be seen with me or hug me or to even say i love you, in public.
but, at home, he’ll say i love you 24/7
but at school?
hell no.

what should i do?
i don’t think he’ll change his ways.

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Ignore him at home

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

until he starts acknowledging you at school

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sunshinealik 2 #
Denver, NC, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

that might work.
maybe i will try that.
thanks.

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

You are more than welcome :)

Always make them feel your pain. Im not talking if he cheat you cheat. Im talking about the small things that he can easily change if he were to just listen to you

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