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Copy Cat.

I dont know if i wrote this before but its relle bothing me, its driven me to tears ALOT lately.
Kay, So that girl is still copying me.
Its SO annoying.
I keep getting mistaken for her, vise versa, people call her me. Then they tell me how they called her me. Its ridiculus. I just want her stop but something back will happen if i tell her, and plus she probley won’t answer my IMs. Like i was calling her a copy cat to my friends and stuff because shes like a fricken clone, and then i hear that she calls me a copy cat. She keeps telling people that im copying her and im like WTF?
All summer the whole 2 and a half montes i was complaning about how much i wanted extensions to my waiste and she JUST got her boy friend to buy them for her. God its p!ssing me off, we were best friends last year and we don’t talk now.
The FIRST day of school and still going, iv teased my hair, made it big, huge even, and she took that from me, she teases her hair and she has extensions to her waiste.
In september i got this coat in grey, and shes like “Hey i like your coat.” then she goes and buys the SAME EXACT one in a greenish color. I had this hello kitty fedish and she buys hello kitty hair clips, i was wearing hair clips WAY before her and i liked Hello Kitty LONG before she did.
WTH did i do to her? Way is she copying me?
Did i mention that she actually lables herself? She calls her self; EMO; kandi kid; SCENE;;
What am i supposed to do? This is making me crazy!!

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peoplehel offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Tell her to back off and get a new look and a life

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11 months, 1 week ago (9 hours, 6 minutes after post)

If someone copies you, it usually means that they like your style. Even if it is a little too much.
Act like it isn’t bothering you…say nothing. Soon, she’ll get bored and back down.

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desperate_smil offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

hust stop giving a flying ****.
i know its not very good advice, but just delve into urself
if ur not willing to get in her face, cuss her out and tell her to back the F off….then the next best thing to do is just get really subtle.
don’t make it a big deal. just, wen u see her and she’s acting like ur mirror, give her a casual flip from your middle finger.
wen people confuse u two, and they tell u they did, just tell them that it shouldnt be that hard to figure out, she’s a (place choice of derisive word) and ur not.
tell ur friends about watever new thing ur planning to do, do it, and wen she ends up doing it afterwards, at least that small group will know, and word will spread.

she’s just a wannabe, she sees the style, and u pulling off exactly wat she longs to be, and copies u. she’s a poser little priss, get in her face or be subtle…watever the case, just stop giving a ****.

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Mally251 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

This is SOO annoying! I have a friend that copys everything I say. She then says them to other people while I’m standing there and takes credit for ideas that are completely mine.

I mean, I am thrilled if she wants to do some things like me, thats great..but everything I say she pretends like its her personality! Drives me insane.

I mentioned to her the other day that a friend of ours never had an original thought so that maybe she would get the hint. So far, it hasn’t worked.

Good luck on the copying, and all I can say is let’s just switch things up sometimes to really keep them on their feet..lol!

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nadiadu offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

I know it is sooooooooo annoying ,i have same problem this girls name jevgenia,she also calls herself “ginger” ,she lies pretty much about everything including her nationality,she copying me like crazy and i dont like it she even bought same kind of coat as i have she even try to wear her hair similar to mine but still i look better she even mentioned to me that she would love to have wig that matches my hair color,aint that some crypy mess…

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lees199 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 4 weeks ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

I have the same problem but this girl is atchly doing copyright! its gotten serious. What should i do?

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