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Very, Very Awkward.

i agree this is a very akward situation my advice is to confront him to see if he can explain himself

katiemariebernadett wrote:
i agree this is a very akward situation my advice is to confront him to see if he can explain himself

I disagree. I think that would be even more awkward. I say forget about it. I know he’s your dad and everything but he’s a man before that.

i understand it would be awkward to talk to him but she cant keep that to her self it would make things alot worse in the long run

katiemariebernadett wrote:
i understand it would be awkward to talk to him but she cant keep that to her self it would make things alot worse in the long run

I suppose. Lazy, I guess it’s really just up to you…ignore it or talk to him.

i guess it is

lazy wrote:
so the word is Awkward?

Apalled is probably a good would too. That is if I spelled it right which I don’t think I did.

Well I also have an ******* of a father, I just avoid him and keep talk to the bare minimum, as if I were speaking to an acquaintance. If you think he is cheating on your mother then maybe you should tell someone, it’s up to you, you don’t have to, if it was me I’d just ignore him as much as possible until you can completely rule him out of your life. How should you feel? Disappointed I guess, but don’t let it get to you, most people are idiots and assholes, apparently including your dad.

I think you should ask him why hes cheating on your mom. See this is why i am scared of getting married or being in a relationship period. Most guys get bored and want to venture off. The question is do the wife know but simply ignore it or is she clueless. I would tell my mom because im really close to her but i never been in your situation before so i really cant tell you what to do until it happens to me, which it never will because my parents divorced along time ago.

I thought about this for a while before posting a reply.

Yes, I think you should talk to your father. Tell him that you found some things on the sim card that troubled you, and that you are worried about him, your mom and their marriage.

This could be the “wake up” call he needs. Yes, it will be awkward, but it could shock him out of his bad behavior.

I’d imagine that would be troubling for you Lazy. What do you want to do? Truth is that you don’t necessarily have to do anything but you may have it in the back of your mind if you don’t. I’d suggest you talk to your Dad about it, give him the chance to explain himself and you can tell him how awkward and uncomfortable that made you feel. It could mean anything. You’ll be able to discern the truth by looking at him as he explains himself and take it from there. I wouldn’t suggest jumping to any conclusions just yet, just come out with it and ask him what’s going on. This really is a tough one. Sorry you have to deal with this.