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hmm… im in the same spot, but im the girl and older too…. just tell her.,.. and she probably likes you back. so it might work out

Yeah, I was in a similar position. If you think she likes you back, then you should go for it. No sense waiting for an underclassman. = )

kyliejohnson1 wrote:
hmm… im in the same spot, but im the girl and older too…. just tell her.,.. and she probably likes you back. so it might work out

id like to but im kinda shy and i really dont even know what to say to her to tell her. besides that, i dont exactly want to have a gf w/ out my parents knowing but im not sure if they would exactly be ready

Holy Raspberry wrote:
Yeah, I was in a similar position. If you think she likes you back, then you should go for it. No sense waiting for an underclassman. = )

ok well i KNOW that she likes me, but how exactly do i “go for her”?

clara1 wrote:
oh my suggestion is to make ur move lol

how exactly?

clara1 wrote:
my bf asked me out by a secret message. he put like tons of balloons in my car and after school. he had some one ask for my keys and had someone distract me then he put tons of balloons in my car but only some had letters in so i had to pop my way to find out whatever it was but he put will u go out with me in some of the balloons it was so creative and i couldnt say no althought my car was a total mess

That’s so cute!!!

Anonymous wrote:

clara1 wrote:
oh my suggestion is to make ur move lol

how exactly?

kiss her.

mar98 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

clara1 wrote:
oh my suggestion is to make ur move lol

how exactly?

kiss her.

…did u not read the part about me being shy?lol

clara1 wrote:
yea shy people dont do that lol umm idk be creative if shes anything like me i cant stand borring

she’s not exactly super outgoing or anything but then again she’s not a lazy a$$ either… i just have never done this before and have completely no idea what to do

idk, not super quiet, i mean we talk and stuff, she gives me rides home from school sometimes if she drives there

oh! also she asked me to a party a week or two ago and i went and was one of only two guys there and she definitely made an effort to be w/ me and do things w/ me while we were there

ok well thats good, but what about my “parents problem”?

well not necessarily overprotective, but im the oldest kid in my family and theyve never really gone through their kid having a gf/bf before. they still tease my about girls like im a little kid sometimes so im not sure if theyre exactly ready for it.

not really, im not exactly sure how to approach them about it. i dont really talk to them as much as i should, i tend to stay fairly secluded from my family playing my instruments and stuff, i get along w/ them fine its just that i dont know how to talk to them about it

is there anyway i coud talk to them w/ out getting in trouble first? i was thinking of maybe trying to get one of my friends to say something around them to kinda hint at something or whatever. idk but i dont really know what to say.

do you think there is a way they could kinda get the hint that i like her without me actually telling them them?

so ur friends thought u were too young or ur parents?
so how could i initiate a family talking type thing without being super uncomfortable?

any more subtle ways i could do it? lol
again, im not exactly super outgoing or demanding, even around my parents
by the way i love snickerdoodles :]

good plan!
i can do the buttering up easy enough but how could i kinda “bring it up” exactly?

**they know that this girl “exists” so to speak, and they know that im kinda friends w/ her if this helps u at all

hmmmm, so i gotta kinda come up w/ an evil plan to get to it? ok
itll give me something to think about while im laying in bed trying to fall asleep, im prbly going to see this girl mon because of a thing for band so i have some ideas, i just need to think it out and plan it through.
thanks for ur help! i gotta go to bed now though cause my dads yellin at me to go to sleep lol

snickerdoodles,…got it…

goodnight lol

thanks again

I’ve been in this situation 4 times before…
And now that im in love for the fifth time, i got the curage to tell her my feeling :D

OFC she already had a bf… Life isn’t fair.

Anyway, my point is that if u don’t do anything, both you and her will move on, which means that you will soon be in the same sutiation. But with another girl! So, you can wait, or go for it. your choise!