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There’s this great performance I want to see, but it’s tomorrow night and I haven’t got anyone to go with me.

I’m feeling a little sad about going alone, Sunday night, at the start of the holidays.

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Eris offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

where do you live, what is it, i wanna go :P i’m lonely, too

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khyron32 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Well either you go alone and find someone at the show to “hang out” with or else you don’t go. If you can’t find anyone on such short notice that you know then those are your only real choices. Personally I like going places alone from time to time.

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

hahaha… very unlikely, Eris. i’m in Philadelphia.

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i usually don’t mind going to things alone. but live performance in a social setting… that’s pushing it. i will be the only single person in a group of 25 couples in a highly visible setting.

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Eris offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

hah get me a train ticket :P I’m in Maine

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khyron32 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I use to revel in being the only single guy at a couples activity. Just to watch all the couples who troubles was so much fun. But I’m odd, or at least I was odd, so for you I’d say find someone quickly. Go to one of your hangouts and ask someone you know to show pitty on you and come with you to the gig.

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

most of my friends in philadelphia are other students who are already gone for the holidays. believe me, i’ve been asking and asking :)

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

hmmm… Maine isn’t exotic enough. just for the oddity of it, i wouldn’t mind shipping someone in from Canada, Argentina, or Europe.

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Eris offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

hahaha wow, shot down for living in nowhere’s ville :P thanks alex.

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

well, you can always redeem yourself and move someplace like New York City.

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Eris offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

*starts packing* stupid, stupid Maine. :P

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khyron32 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Hire a call girl then

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

well Eris, if you want to be a nurse, you’re probably going to end up leaving Maine soon enough. that’s kind of exciting.

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Eris offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

yeah. i want to move to miami, actually. nice and tropical! i hate the cold.

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

funny, khyron. it never would have occurred to me. the thing is, that wouldn’t solve my problem. i’m not concerned about the appearance of being alone. it’s the feeling that i don’t like. and hiring a call girl would go a long way toward making me feel worse.

i don’t know how i managed to be in philadelphia all these years and only become friends with other students. that was a mistake i won’t repeat.

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khyron32 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Well nothing wrong with having a tight nit group of friends but yes in times like these it does help to broaden your horizons a bit. I’m sure you can find someone in a city as big as philly to go with you and want to be with you. Either that or just learn to enjoy being alone :-)

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alex ^3 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

thanks khyron and eris. good luck in florida (or wherever warm you end up), eris.

time to head off, do the remaining dishes, and get to bed. goodnight!

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khyron32 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

good night

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Eris offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

nightt

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