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MelodyAnn
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I am wondering why a guy would call a girl, and have nothing to say.

Is it boredom? An ego problem? When the guy calls after drinking a little he has a lot to say, although when he isn’t drinking he has nothing to say.

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MelodyAnn offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

It’s an awkward conversation, and then he says he will call me later…Is that normal?

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MelodyAnn offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

How long does this last? I feel retarded after I get off the phone with him.

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MelodyAnn offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Well, it’s been like this for over a year….haha LOL Like I said when he drinks a little he has a lot to say, although without a drop of alcohol totally boring conversation.

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MelodyAnn offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Thank you for your advice. It gives me a whole new outlook1

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jane_says12 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Just as an FYI Melody. I had a boyfriend when I was younger (like 14) that I was madly in love with. We would get on the phone and say nothing to each other. His family would laugh and say, “when they get on the phone they never talk”. It was really annoying. He had a drinking problem too. Now that I’m older I look back and realize that he was just a drunk and that I wasted my time. He was nice, and cute, but a drunk. Chances are when he was all silent on the phone he was just thinking about his next drink. Hope this helps.

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