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*Time_Lord*
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Alone for christmas and newyear.

I was dumped (or dumped him) on monday, so now ill be alone. Feel really crappy about it. Anyone have tips to feel less alone. Dont have friends to go to either.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

What about family?

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*Time_Lord* offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

They care but its not the same… I was together with him for 2 years… Everyone here is happy i left him… So no support there im afraid

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I see. Well. It`s not the best of times when u know a lot of people get together with their loved ones. Personally i don`t care for christmas at all. Newyear is okay though. Then u can choose.

I guess you will be ok. It takes a while to move on but i`m positive things will work out great for u.

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4 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Stop liking Twilight.

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lock90 offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

harry potter is better and dont sweat it im alone for christmas as well but hey at least i dont have to buy anyone a present this year but my family

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DrAwesomeMcCool offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

ALONE BIG TIME HEAR! yeah not great but hey, its a new year soon, new beginnings :)

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*Time_Lord* offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (13 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Its just hard cause its just before christmas… I really hate him lol, but also still care… and then seeing happy ppl is like some1 hits me… and yea harry potter is good lol

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lock90 offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

dont worry you always have your friends and family and if not you got us on help.com to comfort and support you in your time of need.

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Sigurrós offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

On christmas I’ll be with my brother, it’s his birthday & I’m going to fake it untill I make it with the christmas happiness.

Newyears I’m nearly always alone it seems.. It does kind of suck to have his feeling that everyone is suposedly having a good time - and there’s just nothing. Sit behind my pc, maybe watch some tv that pretends to be funny.

I don’t dare going outside, fireworks scare me, I’m mostly thinking they will throw or shoot them at me. I have this instinct to take cover. Most of the time I end up locking myself into the bathroom.. it’s kind of silly.

And send a *grrawlrl* to your ex from me, I just don’t like his manners of endinga relationship a few days before “the most wonderful time of the year”

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richard.hin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

Hey i’m 29 and I havn’t had a christmas with anyone since I was 16. I grew up in care and have no family and even though I have friends who offer me round theirs on Christmas day I just don’t feel comfortable around familys at all.
I get sad on Christmas day seeing familys together and bonding cause I don’t have that and really want it.
Just be happy you have family who will be there on that special day :)
xx

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