I think I’m still completely into a guy that I never had a real relationship with.

Jinx

I think I’m still completely into a guy that I never had a real relationship with.

We had a few flings in High school, and I mean like we would cuddle and stuff, we never even kissed (it was pathetic really) and like I really fell for him. He was one of those kind of guys you want because you want to help them in a way. well ya, I wanted to make him a better person. and in a way I did.
But things happened once we graduated and he was meaner then ever, made me cry, I think I have a very old post about it.
Anyways, we started talking again on msn and he lives like very far I mean, I live in Alberta, he’s in Quebec.
But I look forward to anytime I get to talk to him and I go online just to see if he’s online and if he would talk to me!
I never got over him I suppose… but still… it’s not healthy for me to be into him.
Any way to get over it??

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life_ 7 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Don’t talk to him over MSN. Waiting for him to be online so that you can talk isn’t going to help. Just realize that nothing can happen with you two because he lives so far away and from what you said he became mean? That’s not good…

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Jinx 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 45 minutes after post)

That’s the thing. I know nothing could happen. But he’s still nice to talk to. And he’s changed since he moved to Quebec. He says its the first time he feels like he doesn’t have to fight with people and stuff. I mean, he’s not in a gang and stuff but he did have his friends and they were constantly causing trouble. but out there he says its the first time he feels like he has a family.

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life_ 7 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Well you have the choice of either still talking to him OR not talking to him. I think that if you cut him out of your life for a bit then you will have some time to try to get over him. If you continue talking to him you might be in the same situation as you are now. “The things we want most are sometimes the things that do us most harm & the things we should let go of”

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

I don’t think there’s a magic wand that’ll get any girl over a guy.
The girl has to let go herself. It’ll come from herself and not just wanting it to happen.
You should think about it, and do you really want to go through all of that pain to get something good that only last for a short time?

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Jinx 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

No you are right TheLiesBegi and I have stoped talking to him and I think I might finally get over him.
I still get like a jump when I see his name pop up to say he’s online but I stopped making the first move to talk to him. It’s a start. :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Thats good. :)
If he really cares, then he’ll make an effort.
If he doesn’t, then hey, who needs him?
It’ll be hard, but you’ll be able to move on.

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Jinx 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

I know he doesnt’ care enough to make the first move. but moving on won’t be a problem seeing as I know what a jerk he is, it’s just a matter of telling my heart that he’s bad for me.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Gah. I know what you mean. That’ll probably take more time than you like, but, don’t give up on trying to better yourself. Don’t go for someone that’s lower than you. It may feel good for a short time, but it’ll harm you in the end. Trust me.

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Jinx 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Thanks TheLiesBegin :) you’ve been a great help!

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

No problem. :) I’m glad I can help.

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