MY BOYFRIEND LIED TO ME. - Help.com

MY BOYFRIEND LIED TO ME.

The whole story.

So, my boyfriend gets ISS like all the time and i got really tired of him getting ISS because i never get to see him when he’s in ISS. and i realyl starting to miss him. so i told him that if he got ISS my dad was going to make me break up with him. so he did really good and didn’t get ISS for that whole week. so he didn’t come to school the next monday because he was sick and then tuesday came and i saw him in the morning like i always do. so i went to fourth period later that day and some people came in there and sais. “Hey, your boyfriend went home sick.” so i was like okay and then before you know it i was in 5th period and my 5th period teacher was like, “Hey, you do know your boyfriend is in ISS?” i was like, “no, he went home sick.” she’s like, “no i sent him to ISS in thrid period today.” so i was like… “okay.” Then i got on the bus to go home and we stopped at the high school to pick up the high school kids. Then my friend on the bus was like, “Hey, there’s your boyfriend.” and i was like, “no, he went home sick today.” (totally forgetting what my 5th period teacher had said at the moment.) then my friend was like, “well isn’t that him?” And i look out the window and see my boyfriend getting on the bus at the high school. he was trying to be sneaky and get on the bus at the high school instead of the junior like he usually did so i wouldn’t see him. So get home and before you know it, my phone rings and it’s my boyfriend. This is how it goes.

Me: Hey, i heard you went home sick today, are you feeling better.
Him: Yea, sorry, i felt realy bad.
Me: Were you throwing up and everything?
Him: Yea, i felt really bad.
Me: So when did you leave school today to go home?
Him: Third period.
Me: Really, is that why i saw you get on the bus at the high school today.

There was silence for a minute.

Him: What happened was, i started feeling better and my dad brought me back in 7th period.
Me: Then why did you get on the bus at the high school instead of the junior high?
Him: I had to give on of my friends down at the high school their PSP game back.
Me: Really, well that’s funny that my 5th period teacher told me you were in ISS today.

There was silence for like 3 minutes then:

Him: Okay, i’m not going to lie to you, i was in ISS today.
Me: you already lied to me! Why did you do that?!
Him: Because i didn’t want us to have to break up.

AND ya see, the thing is… i can kidna understand that. it’s just the fact that he kept telling lie after lie after lie! i gave him so many chances to just come out and tell the truth, but he just kept lying to me.
So we fought for like an hour! and then i was like:

Me: just call me back later.

I couldn’t take it anymore, i’ve already been lied to so many times and i hated that the one person i thought would never lie to me, lied.

So he called back and i told him, i guess we still be with each other, but i don’t think i will ever be able to trust you ever again. AND the truth is, i still can’t trust him… :( and it sucks so bad. because he’s the greatest guy ever and i don’t wanan lose him. He swears he won’t ever lie again, but how do i know that? I’m not sure if i’m over-reacting or if i’m not reacting enough or what! i dno’t kow what to do. because i think he lied to me just recently too…. :( plz help me.

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