im 24 yrs old female in south cali i just lost 2 jobs in 3 days

kelismustang

im 24 yrs old female in south cali i just lost 2 jobs

in 3 days for a meal violation over 3 mins i feel stuck in lost now i still stay wit my parents no kids no car just got into it wit my bestriend i have no friends hardly i have a boyf who i love n cherish more than anything but at times he can get mad and lash out or dismiss me… i wanna die i dont know what to do no one to talk to too i feel at this point in my life i should have gotten somethng accomplished i feel like a failure my whole life i need some1 to talk to not a **** hotline with scripted lines but a real person to hear me out i dont know why god is doing me like this does he want me to hurt myself?

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littlenick 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

What do you mean a meal violation? They fired you for eating?

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kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

no they fired me becuz i clock out too late b4 . u have to clock out b the five hours its so dumb becuz i liked working there n i feel like nothing is going right u know

littlenick 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

So you had to do 5 hours of work? I’m sorry, I don’t understand.

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045001 25 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

sorry to hear you’re going through a really rough time, but things will get better. you’re only 24, kids and a car aren’t a necessity. there will always be better jobs so dont beat yourself up over losing your job. instead, use that energy for find a new one.

nothing in life should have the ability to make you feel like you want to hurt yourself

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kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

on friday my time was 6 - 10 45 i acidently clocked out at 11 03 11 makes it five hours i didnt know it went over 11 o clock..so if i was to take a lunch i woulhave suppossed to take it b4 11 so not to get in trouble

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

So they fired you because of that? Was it your first time doing this?

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kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

it was da second time becuz i was temporary but everyone liked me i liked it there n 3 mins becuz of a dumb state law im scared what to tell my parents i know they gonna be shocked it has been so rough for me this yr i was homeless on the streets alone ididnt tell my boyf becuz i was ashamed n when i did he took me in i have no family i feel im a ood person i volunteer i help others this world is just crazy n its getting to me

kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

i know is just a job ut i want to be stable

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

kelismustang wrote:
it was da second time becuz i was temporary but everyone liked me i liked it there n 3 mins becuz of a dumb state law im scared what to tell my parents i know they gonna be shocked it has been so rough for me this yr i was homeless on the streets alone ididnt tell my boyf becuz i was ashamed n when i did he took me in i have no family i feel im a ood person i volunteer i help others this world is just crazy n its getting to me

I wish i knew what to say. Have you thought about going to college?

kelismustang wrote:
i know is just a job ut i want to be stable

I know what you mean

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kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

yeah i been b4 i was thikin of going back but when it comes to school im smart ut i dont have the patience but i do wanna go back

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Well i think you should go back and get a part time job. You might need a person to motivate you which will cause you to want to work hard to obtain your goals.

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kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

thanks skyy if i can just get back in school i can get a degree dont have to worry to much bot a jo look forward to a career i easily get down im just nervous on tellin my parents i dont wanna disappoint them anymore

skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

We always think we will disappoint our parents but right now you need to think about you and your future. Tell them and let them know that you didnt mean to go over your time and that you really enjoyed that job. Also tell them that you want to go back to school because you will be stuck with unstable jobs until you ger a degree (which you already know). I know how hard it is to let your parents know something that you know will disappoint them but you have to do it. Try proving to yourself that you succeed and show your parents that you will amount something other than failure. They need to support you just like we as their children need to support them. If they are downing you and making you feel worse just ignore them

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Oh and i get down easily too but we have to keep moving forward or we will be stuck in the past. You know…

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kelismustang 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 32 minutes after post)

thanks skyy u really helpful uve tol me more than ppl ive known for yrs lol i just put my resume on two career sites so i hope for the bst and ima go looking tommorrow and ive looked into a class i been thinkin of doing the emt emergency medical technichian my friend was jus explaining it to me so hopefully next fall i can do dat

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