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My guy bestfriend hates me, and wishes he could kill me, and i all i want to do his become his friend again.

How do i do that without him hating me again?

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Can you please give me some advise, im so sad, and confused. And like durning the summer we were kinda in love, and i miss him :( he was everything that i need, and wanted, he completes me.

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

What went wrong?

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

apperently i did somthing, but i have no clue what.

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

You should definitely try to talk to him and find out what exactly happened to your relationship

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

i have tried, but he just like f**k off. And Friday at the school dance i cried about it, i couldnt hold my tears back. I have sent him a letter saying sorry for everthing i could thing about, and everything.

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

maybe you should just let go..

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i cant.. its REALLY HARD .. i still like him :(

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

we were inlove in the summerr..

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

help me pleaseee :( im dieing in side..

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

No you aren’t. This is totally fixable. Time. Time will solve the whole thing. Just enjoy life and forget about him.

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

This started 2 months ago, and i have gaven it 2 months,
everyone has been telling me time will with solve everything, and i tried, it didnt work.

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

two months is so not long enough

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

okayyyyy .. ill try for how long?

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Wolves_of_Passion offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

He sounds like a immature person if he is mad at your for something you don’t even know about and won’t talk about it. He sounds like a douche bag wasting your time. Get over him.
Sorry for being so blunt, but people like that are idiots.

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

for as long as it takes but just in case that’s too long for you, you can shout me whenever you’re feeling down about it and i’ll let you know if it’s taking too long

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

madisonnn wrote:
Can you please give me some advise, im so sad, and confused. And like durning the summer we were kinda in love, and i miss him :( he was everything that i need, and wanted, he completes me.

uh, hum … let’s see, he wishes he could kill you, but YOU love him. And “he completes you.” Uh huh.

something is very wrong with this picture

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (49 minutes after post)

yea, but like all my friends talk to him, and i cant

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (50 minutes after post)

and thanks sighmycast :)
i will

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (54 minutes after post)

but i still need more helpp !!!:( i cant get over him, its harder then it sounds

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (55 minutes after post)

no problem.
and hey, it’s one day at a time. when you start thinking about him do something to occupy your mind

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (58 minutes after post)

writing. reading. art. exercising. music. listening to it creating it. talking to people..

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

okay,
but i still cant keep him off my mind

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

that will follow. don’t try to not think about him. just let your brain think of what it wants while you’re doing something else.

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

but i cant :( .. i try .. but i cant :(

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signmycast offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

time.

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madisonnn offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

okayyyy, ill try :(
thanks alot :)

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