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ok if i love this guy and i know i cant be with him

how can i get over it im doing better as time goes by but every now and then something reminds me of him and well you know i cry and feel like crap

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jennnyxx3 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

just try thinking about another guy. if he is making you cry then he isnt worth your time.

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Help me with: i like this kid, hes my ex boyfriend two times over.
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11 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

why cant you be with him??.. he doesnt want to? or parents? or distance? that can make a big difference on the situationn.. Theres someone in my life Ive cried SO much overr.. Ive realized its not worth it. because he didnt care about me as much as I cared about him. Not even close..
which is what made it even worse..
just thinking about how much I loved him
and realizing he didnt feel the same.

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Polo721 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Then stick it out and keep in contact with him as much as possible, write letters or something. When you finally see him again it will all be worth it.

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dparks22 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 25 minutes after post)

love it tough, I wish I could help you. All i can say is I feel you.

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Help me with: Does anyone here have aspirations of being something far better than what they are today?
vander2400 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

i think you give it another shot with the guy and do whatever needs to be done…( like communication…) and it seems like this situation happen to a lot of people. and even at time guys. its like the situation we are in seem to be more complicated than it really is. And as time goes by and we do little or nothing to fix it, then it feel impossible to fix the problem.
But i think we should always think positive and just try to fix the problem not matter how hard it might be.

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