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I did something REALLY stupid=[

Ok so 3 days ago me and my boyfriend got into this huge fight. Long story. I started talking to this guy online and I did something stupid as ****. Im 15 and so is my bf..The guy was 19..I sent him nudes..I wanted revenge on my bf.Idk what I was thinking. It was the dumbest decision ve ever made..Now I hate myself for what Ive done..I want to hurt myself. I know..I deserve it. I cant tell him..I just cant..The guy who I sent them to sent some back…Just so I knew it was a private thing..He hasnt logged on his Email since..Or his VF acount.Im soo scared..Hes probably going to put them out there=[[[..I seriously couldnt take that.I cant even take this..Im beating myself up.Literally..Idk what to do…Care to give some advice??

Ps..I know Im a horrible person..U can tell me again though..

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

No, your not a horrible person, you just made a bad decision, which by the looks you already know that or you wouldnt be beating yourself up over it so bad. Many of us have done dumb things that we regret.

Do you know this guy personally ? Or just online ?

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Just Online.

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Did you send him pics showing your face ?

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Wolves_of_Passion offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I doubt he’ll put them online, if he did he’d be going to prison as you are 3 years under the legal age, so he’d have to be pretty dumb to do so.

Anonymous #
11 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Ohh..No pics of the face..But u can see my room..

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~~EdieAnne~~ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Sweetheart,we all make mistakes. Some of them monumental. I have.
But there is something you may not be thinking about.
You are 15 years old.
You are certainly old enough to understand the dangers of the internet.
I don’t mean the dangers of someone posting your pictures.
But the danger of someone that you don’t even know looking at those pictures and deciding that they want more.
I mean, would you take your pictures and go out and nail them to a telephone pole?
Putting them on the net with strangers is the same thing, IMHO.
If you were my sister, I’d just have to shake you right now.
Because you could be putting your very life on the line here.
Ohhh ok.
I just read the reply about NO FACE.
That is good news, if there is any here.
Now, I will say this with all the care and love I can.
DO NOT EVER SEND ANYONE ANY MORE PICS OF YOURSELF!!!!
Got it?
You may have been lucky this time.
But next time, someone can track your computer information.
STOP!!!!
Never again, right?
I have a rule for myself…..Never send anyone anything that I would NOT want my Mom to see.
OK?
Be safe, sweetheart. THINK before you send. Edie

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