Love help: Not being able to forget my girl - Help.com

You can try to call her, or speak to her in person when you get the opprotunity. Not saying that it is, but there is a possibility that she may not be the right one. If she left without saying anything, if she dosen’t want to be with you, then it is a good idea to try and not force her to talking with you.

Sometimes relationships don’t always go the way we plan them, trust me I know from experience. The important thing to remember is although we may loss people that we think are important, whatever has happen to end a relationship, we move on and learn from what happened. If you have lost someone, then remember that there are several more chances to find someone special.

This may not be quite what you wanted to hear, but she really dosen’t sound that good if she forgot someone who cares for her that quickly, which mean if you two were still together then she would only cause you more heartbreak.

How old are you? How old was she? Have you considered that she may of been seeing this guy before? It seems unlikely that she would meet someone so soon after you and ave her relationship with them get to the point of marriage so soon. I had a girl I couldn’t get over. I was single for two years and she was all I could think of..I met someone else and dated them for four years and still thought of my ex all the time. Then I broke up with her and recently met another girl and fell in love with her…to my surprise, I ran into my ex girlfriend and I realized I was over her and happier than I ever was with her. I think a big part of me getting over her was my four year rebound relationship. You should try dating.

I agree. Dating is the key to getting over an ex. However, this is dangerous territory if ur just usin the girl to help u get over someone else. If u are genuinely attracted to her and care for her, even if it isnt as much as ex, go for it because ur feelings could grow.

Your ex obv doesnt deserve you but instead of focusin on how badly she treated you, try thinkin about the happier times you had together and keep them as memories but get on with ur life - do things u enjoy.

I can understand why ur stuck cos the guy i like still cares for his ex but likes me aswel, He wont pursue anythin til he’s sure he’s over her cos he doesnt want to hurt me.

“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
-Dr. Seuss

Also develop more friendships and date new people. Your memories of her will fade unless you choose to recall them through pictures, letters, etc. which should be moved somewhere where you cannot just stumble across them.

I understand how you feel. It’s one of the most painful experiences to go through when you realise that somenoe you spent so much time with doesn’t care about you anymore. From my experience I’m trying to look at it from the point of that person who is no longer in my life left to pave the way for someone else who’s going to be the greatest thing that ever happened to me. Hopefully that’s the same thing that will happen to you. The more months that go on the less you’ll think about her trust me it happens.