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hi, ive got a very simple question, yet i need a very good and convincing answer…

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does everybody deserve another chance??
no matter how much he screws up,,,,,,if he was the only one to blame,,
if he’s the reason of his own failure!!!!!!!
does a person deserve another chance,even if he had many chance that he blew away,, no matter how much he screws up??????

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

i hope ur right mas, i screwd up all my chances,,,,,,,,and everybody tells me,,
its over for me,, i dont deserve another one……………..
so im thinking,, do i? really?
but i know that if i get another chance i would take pretty much good care of it

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Dr. Pepper offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

“there’s always one more time”

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Kal… I’d like to send you a free e-book copy of my book. I think you might find some value in it. It’s short, easy to read but I’ve been told insightful and helpful. If you want to find out more about it just look at www.myspace.com/richard_hills

If you’re interested email me… it’s your’s free (same for any help.com member).

Bright blessings ~ Richard

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

oh.. and yeah… you get to make the choices for you… no one else, so the chances are there for you without a doubt.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

i guess all what ur saying is true,, but this time my screw up caused me to pay way too much,,
ive lost my family, for ever………… ive destroyed all my relationships.. ive completely
destroyed any hope for me to carry on with my education,,and so long any dreams ive ever had,
my only hope right now is my father, i hope he has the big heart to forgive me…. i just hope!

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Dr. Pepper offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

I’ve lost everything cuple of moths ago and guess what - I survied.. and you’re gona survive to.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

I don’t know what you did that could be so devastating across the board like that, but even if you did many of these sort of losses are transient… you can get them back. Dreams never die… dreams are killed - that is your choice.

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

NO

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

well idicy, my brother shares you the same opinion

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

yeah. you gave him enough chances already. it’ll take a miracle for him to change overnight.

unless you’re convinced he’s a different person then he’ll just keep on going messing up.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

idiocyinbubbles wrote:
yeah. you gave him enough chances already. it’ll take a miracle for him to change overnight. unless you’re convinced he’s a different person then he’ll just keep on going messing up.

the “he” were talking about is me, and yes ive screwd up so bad,,,, but now that i lost
everyone i love,, everything,, i really really apreciate chances man

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

so what is this about? what do you want me to say?

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

im just telling u to concider that people cant change over night,, but they could get extremely desperate or convinced that “thats it this is my last chance, i have got to do well”

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

well then do well! what exactly is going on? what are you having trouble with

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

i know ppl can’t change overnight, hopefully the people you want to give you another chance know that too.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

We all deserve one more chance. What we do with that chance is what really counts. However if you end up screwing up all over again, then you will have proven them right that they should not have given you that chance. Hopefully it all works out for you.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

if i want to explain my whole situation, itl take way too long,,,,
i hope for a chance, but i doubt i will get one………im so screwd,, in a month or so
im gonna turn from a senior college street to…. i dont know, im gonna hit the streets..****

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

kal wrote:
if i want to explain my whole situation, itl take way too long,,,,i hope for a chance, but i doubt i will get one………im so screwd,, in a month or soim gonna turn from a senior college street to…. i dont know, im gonna hit the streets..****

“senior college student”

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

kal wrote:
does everybody deserve another chance??

In a perfect world/in theory, yes.
In practice it’s just not possible.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (42 minutes after post)

Step666 wrote:

kal wrote:
does everybody deserve another chance??

In a perfect world/in theory, yes.
In practice it’s just not possible.

not even from ones father…….
hell

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

well YOU know you deserve another chance.

do you want this last chance because you’re on the streets otherwise?

or do you sincerely want to get straight?

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

You may well DESERVE another chance but that doesn’t mean your father will be able to bring himself to give you one.

Like I say, in an ideal world everyone would get another chance but not in the real world.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

idiocyinbubbles wrote:
well YOU know you deserve another chance.do you want this last chance because you’re on the streets otherwise? or do you sincerely want to get straight?

of course i want another chance because i wanna get honestly straight….
ending up on the streets is just how i imagine it, “if not worse”

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

maybe you should go to a detox center… if you’re at your dad’s you’ll go back out.

that way you’ll actually GET straight and if you care, your dad will actually know that you’re trying to be better

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (58 minutes after post)

ok, thank u everybody,, n by the way my problem isnt with drugs or drinking,,..
anyway thanks for sharing ur thoughts..

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (58 minutes after post)

oh ok. can i ask what your problem is with?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

thanks man, but i already told u if i want to open up, itll take a lot of time that i dont have,,
besides the fact that im not a person who really likes to share there problems with others. thx anyway

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

it’s just hard to give any real advice when you’d rather not let us know what your real problems are.

or do you know?

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idiocyinbubbles offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

if it’s with anger get on meds…

if it’s with drugs go to rehab…

all we can do is guess.

PRAY! how bout pray! that always works!

/sarcasm

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

“or do you know?” what?????
i know my problems, i sure do…
i didnt ask anyone to help me, i just wanted to know what people think,, anywayz
praying is the option that i have chosen about an hour ago. its the only option i do have at the moment

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

So… when you pray, do not say, “Please merciful God… I want..” but rather, “Thank you Father in heaven for the ____ that you have given me” Pray a prayer of gratitude because God has given us everything we need for our happiness and success. Yeah, yeah yeah, I know it’s hard to believe, but it’s true. It’s our choices (which is of God’s FIRST concern) that keep us from his goodness. Believe that it is all out there for you, and it will be.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Richard cor de lyon wrote:
So… when you pray, do not say, “Please merciful God… I want..” but rather, “Thank you Father in heaven for the ____ that you have given me” Pray a prayer of gratitude because God has given us everything we need for our happiness and success. Yeah, yeah yeah, I know it’s hard to believe, but it’s true. It’s our choices (which is of God’s FIRST concern) that keep us from his goodness. Believe that it is all out there for you, and it will be.

i hope it will, and yes i’d love to get a copy of your e-book.. i think i really need to change, at least i have to

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

I can only e-mail it… so email me at richhills1 @ sbcglobal .net (no spaces) and I’ll send you a copy right away.

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kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

thanx, ill mail u right now

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

so, what is so bad that ur own family wont forgive u for??

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