when i broke up with my fiance today i had a panic attack and couldnt stop crying is this normal?

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when i broke up with my fiance today i had a panic attack and couldnt stop crying is this normal?

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idiocyinbubbles 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

yes, it’s normal.

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idiocyinbubbles 5 #
Whittier, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

you were probably really scared of how he’d react! at least it’s over now.

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Step666 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

‘Normal’ doesn’t exist.
It’s a figment of our collective imaginations, this idea of how everyone else behaves and, therefore, how we ourselves are supposed to behave but in reality, no-one behaves that way.

The way you reacted is the way you needed to to deal with what happened.
Don’t worry about that, just focus on making sure you start to feel better and move on.

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littlenick 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

How old are you and how long were you engaged to your “fiance?”

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dark_light 2 #
Manchester, I2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Of course!! You’ve just split from the one person you thought u would be with for the rest of your life. That’s enough to scare anybody.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

25 engaged for a year been together for two

Anonymous #
11 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

i think i paniced cos he was so devastated

littlenick 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

So you don’t love him anymore?

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dark_light 2 #
Manchester, I2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i think i paniced cos he was so devastated

It seems that u ended it and thats obviously an important decision to make. If u feel that its the right one then its better for him to know now than when ur married. Its unfair on both of u to live a lie.

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lostpupppy 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

i do love him i just think i may be in love with someone else and i cant stand the small town i live in its not where i grew up and i dont fit in here

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littlenick 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Well, if you don’t love him anymore, it’s a good thing you broke it off! Better now to find out you don’t love him than to find out you don’t love him once you’re hitched for life! If you think you’re in love with someone else, you don’t love him! Is that the reason why you guys broke up?

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lostpupppy 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

no we dont share the same dream and we are not from the same culture and he couldnt manage to keep his promises to me

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littlenick 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

The worst thing any man can do is break promises to a woman! It’s a good thing you find out now that you don’t share the same dream better than later! Why are you in the small town? Because you lived with him?

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lostpupppy 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

no part of my family lives abroad i emagrated to live with them but miss city life we never lived together

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littlenick 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Go back to your family! Make a fresh start!

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