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Life shouldn’t be complicated but sometime we feel it is. However, life isn’t what we perceive it. Life is just life. We do not have the ability to change some of the things that life gives up, but we have the power to change how we feel about it.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

I agree like death we can’t change death sometimes prevent it but it’s how we accept it that’s the true change. I think life is what we make it, we choose being happy and sad. I woke up today and said I’m going to be happy so far I’m happy well kind of other then being sleepy. I think we all have energy and what we say goes into that energy and that’s how we start to feel. Your body reads that energy and acts on it. Elizabeth:)

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Noticehelp offline Verified User (3 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (2 months after post)

That makes sense…i think. I know as a fact that we cant change the choices we have made in life but life becomes complicated when we cant stop thinking about how we could have done things better or different. u c i have depression. most of the day everything is fine untill i start to think about how i could have changed something i did that day. well it was good. goodbye from Brandie

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

let me put it this way……..Can you tell you are in a dream when you actually are….?If not……. then how can you say even now reading my mail is not a dream. Ofcourse it is a realistic dream when you can not just see things happen but also make things work for you………..!!!!!!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

I really agree with this post life is complicated. The think about life though that I totally believe in is that life is a book of lessons that will help you down the path more smooth in this big game of life. Every mishap or encounter that you go through in life is a lesson waiting for you to discover. The think is that most of us human bieng like myself have to fall on our heads a couple of times before we get the message that is trying to be conveyed to us. I think that if we open our eyes a little wider as Plato, the famous philosopher tries to tell us and live an observed life, than your path down the game of life will be alot smoother because you opened your eyes and realized the lesson that was to be learned the first time around

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

amen to that! don’t sweat the small stuff..learn, apply, carry on. “be”

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