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This is my first time posting so,

dont think i sound stupid please =]
Well my boyfriend went away and i wont see him for
a month, its already been 2 weeks and i really miss him,
we have been together for 2 years in Jan. and never been apart.
We cant talk and his phone isnt working over there.
Soooo, 2 days ago i saw that he logged into his mail
and read a message i sent him, but he never messaged me
back and im woondering if i should be worried. What if he doesnt miss me
or somthing else is going with him over there? What do you think?

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (56 minutes after post)

I think do not read into it so much, I think possibly he read it and his computer crashed or lost connection or he had to run off somewhere, i think sleep easy for the next two weeks and look forward to seeing him again, I know it’s hard but you will get there, keep busy and gather all your friends around you to help keep you busy

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour after post)

yeah i was thinking that, thanks =]

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 89 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

there is good in everything but you really have to look , see this time as a time to find urself more to reflect more upone urself more, take it as a break abit… if you want to see there is good in it… about the guy and email and thingy well dont make a big deal out of it :), go on as if it didnt happen it’s not worth gruding over.. time can tell :)… no rush :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

I would also worry but based on my experience, it turned out that i really had nothing to worry about. :)

Cheer up. :)

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

=]

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

And oh, you don’t sound stupid. I promise.

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

helllllllloooooooooooooooooo :)

ok…weres your bf gone?

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Mexico
for the holidays,
with his family =[

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

i wouldnt worry lv,

have you phoned him?

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

He told me to call and leave
him messages because he wouldnt
have any signal,i have left him 2
voice messages everyday =[ and still no answer

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

how often did you see&speak to your bf beforehand?

maybe his parents want him all to themselves for a change :)

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 22 minutes after post)

hahaha, we couldnt be stopped ;D

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

did his parents try&stop your relationship?

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

No =] thats why i was worried,
its not like him to not even try to talk to me after so long apart

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

then i think your safe&sound

like he says he prob cant get a signal etc!

maybe the connections down on the net too

i know mine was on xmas day :(

how long before you see him now?

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

im not sure, probly after the new years,
i know im over-reacting but this is the first time
haha, and i’ve been trying to keep my mind off it =]

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 433 #
GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 33 minutes after post)

crikey!ive been with my hubby for 24 yrs&im missing him now!
so i know your not being silly
its whats called love&it truly is a gift from god :)

im sure hes missing you loads!!!
try writing him a poem:)

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 57 minutes after post)

When I went to Canada, I couldn’t call my bf and I could get signal and I literally had enough time to read my messages before my friends called me to go play in the snow, have faith and look forward to him coming home

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robmiester offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Sarnia, ON, CA | 11 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 30 minutes after post)

I remember I had a girlfriend who went on a vacation away for a week. That week sucked, I missed her. When she came back her exboyfriend who she apparently visited started calling again all of a sudden. Not to mention another guy calling while I prepared her dinner and we were sititng down eating. What pissed me off more is why she was answering it? So yeah, she cheated on me hard, not to mention her getting gangbanged by an OHL hockey team here. Thats the thanks I get for pouring my love into someone. It’s not worth it, wait until you are old enough and pathetic enough to find a loved one. We got too much life to throw it away on someone else.

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 hours, 29 minutes after post)

OMG! thats horrible!
haha know im getting worried =[
but he doesnt have any ex-gfs over there?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Hello poster, so how is it going, heard anything from him?

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Nope, and
yesterday was our anniversary =[

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 hours, 34 minutes after post)

:( okay sorry to hear that, but i hope you have improved than from hours back.

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Stress007 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 hours, 41 minutes after post)

yeah, a friend called me
and i was sleeping too =P

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