Love help: this guy used to be my everything and now he hates me and i still love him - Help.com

Hello Hollister1:
One of the most painful things in life is letting go someone. The truest love is to give, not to take. If you really love this guy, then you will give him his freedom- freedom to be alone, or even freedom to be with someone else. It is a very hard thing to do. But when you finally say, “I release you because that is how much I love you,” then you will feel a burden lifted. WIll it hurt? Of course. There is no separation without pain. But in time, you will look back and know that what you did is right. Instead of tormenting yourself with what you can not receive, why not give to him what you can, and that is your pure love.

HelloHollister1:

If U don’t want to be in pain, just try not 2 remember all the good times U 2 had together.
When U see him just think of him as a friend. Evevtually U won’t fell the same as U used to.
Its going 2 B a little hard but try it. it’ll help

i know how you feel. i think you should try and talk to him before it’s to late. people think time will heal the wounds of a broken heart but it won’t. i have the same problem except he won’t come near me and he won’t talk to me, but he tells my friends the reason he stays so far is because he still loves me. maybe that’s all your man is feeling.

I dont’ know how he loved you and that loved turned into hating you? If you did something, i.e. cheated on him or slept with someone else, you should expect in karma. Honestly, it is a rare occassion for a smart guy to take a person back who cheated on him.