A question to anybody who has ever loved anyone.
“all is fair in love and war” is the saying most often quoted when people ask how do you fight for the one you love . well I believe in that saying. I’m going through a situation myself and im trying to be classy about it but I might have to fight a little harder than expected to speed things along but anyway i digress. my question is this : If you want someone and somebody else wants them too does that saying hold true ? how can you respect somebody elses feelings and still go after your own happiness ? you can try to be classy and not really mean but at what point do you just have to say I dont care what the other person feels I wanna be happy too ! its not like you are doing the noble or christian thing and giving somebody who has no money your last dollar or helping out somebody who is needier than you. your not giving the last peice of food when there isnt anymore . this is a different situation and in this particular case its everybody for themselves. your thoughts on this
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