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people r tellin me 2 let go of himbut he flirts w/ me still i love him stil

i wanna get over him I TRY BUT I JUST CANT!

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straywolf offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (20 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Hello again, Hollister1:
I feel your pain. As I wrote earlier, a part of you doesn’t want to let go. (That’s why you’re allowing him to flirt with you.) But this is not pure love. Pure love is letting go. Love doesn’t take, it gives. If you want to take (his love), then it is conditional love. If this boy did not have the qualities you found beautiful, you wouldn’t even give him the time of day. Think of it this way: What if this guy looked like someone else, someone not so good-looking. WOuld you still fell the same. I doubt it.
I am sorry you feel that he is the only one for you. He is not. Believe me. You will find someone in the future. But you can only find this future someone if you let go of the past.
Best regards…
straywolf

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nguyen002 offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

You can get over him, but you won’t, not can’t. If you really wanted to get over him, you would not put yourself in the position to have him flirt with you.

If you truly believe that you cannot forget him, because he continues to flirt with you, take yourself out of that position.

How do you know that you can’t get over him, if you don’t try 100%? Just don’t hang out with him, seriously.

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