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help me get over my fears!

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ok so i’m 13 and i really like this guy in my grade… the only thing is i get SOO incredibly nervous when im with him. like im new to this whole relationship thing.. were not going out or anything.. YET! like i just don’t know what to talk about when i’m with him and that should be weird cuz we have SO much in common… we love sports, books, etc. and i feel like im not being flirty enough sometimes. help?

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chanceymarle offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

maybe you should move to africa.

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peaceou offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

i don’t know how that could help me!

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

chanceymarle wrote:
maybe you should move to africa.

how the hell would that help?
try hanging out with him more often in less meaningfull situations, just hang out like friends

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dark_light offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Manchester, I2, GB | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Be yourself! Feel confident. Your a great person and u need to show him that. Talk about things u have in common. Mention things that interest u like a certain movie and get his opinion on it. Find ur similarities and differences. I know its easy to tell u to be confident when ur shy but a lot of people fake confidence and find that they become a more confident person. he wud be lucky to have u and if he cant see that then he’s not the 1. Good luck! :-)

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