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signs and age in a relationship

yes… the cheesy love post :)

we’ve known eachother for 2 years now.
we dont go to the same school, dont text, call eachother, but talk at sports practice.
he starts most of our conversations.
he plays with my hair sometimes(my guyfriend asked me today if bob liked me because he saw bob playing with my hair).
does he like me, by what you can tell?

bob’s in eighth grade, i’m in tenth *but he’s taller and mature.
does age matter, the fact that i’d be older if we went out?

thanks for all your help :)

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Anonymous #
10 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Age is just a number and if you like each other then it shouldn’t matter. My man is 7 years older than I am.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Eh, Might be some problems being able to see each other, but I don’t see any real problem with the age.

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mar98 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Are you afraid kids are gonna make fun of you? Who cares what anybody thinks!
I knew a 12th grade girl once who went out with a 9th grade mature guy and there was no problem. Yeah, age shouldn’t be a problem.

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

hey thanks for the encouragement so far :)

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Ashlee wrote:
hey thanks for the encouragement so far :)

You go get him Ashlee…

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

easier said than done commander!

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

Ashlee wrote:
easier said than done commander!

Isn’t it always? But go at it.

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zapcory offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

yeah age isnt a really big deal i dated a 14 yearold and i was 18 haha but it only lasted 3 weeks

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

zapcory wrote:
yeah age isnt a really big deal i dated a 14 yearold and i was 18 haha but it only lasted 3 weeks

Woah.

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

AHAHAHA JlfSJFJdsf i’m still too shaky to ask a guy out…for now :)

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Ashlee wrote:
AHAHAHA JlfSJFJdsf i’m still too shaky to ask a guy out…for now :)

Well, get un-shy and ask him out tomorrow :)

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

i dont see him tomorrow. o darn… :D *i’m so relieved

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Ashlee wrote:
i dont see him tomorrow. o darn… :D *i’m so relieved

Next time you see him then.

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

dangit!!! :P whhyyyyyy

i doubt i could though.. we’ll see

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Ashlee wrote:
dangit!!! :P whhyyyyyy

i doubt i could though.. we’ll see

I await reports of your Success!

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

success/failure to ask/rejection

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Ashlee wrote:
success/failure to ask/rejection

Hm?

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

you’ll be waiting to hear reports of my success, or my failure to ask him, or him rejecting me…..if that still makes any sense…

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

hey ashlee
i guess age doesn’t matter…. if you like him and you think he likes you then go ahead,,, be happy with him….. who says something else it is jealous on you…. so ask for his phone ******. or tell him you two should go to cinema, concert or something like that together….. you’ll figure it out… :)

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Ashlee offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

thanx :)

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

Ashlee wrote:
thanx :)

you are welcome darling

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kkstar411 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks after post)

age is just a number it should not make a diffrence

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

Age doesn’t matter. If you like him and he likes you I say go for it. As for him liking you it’s hard to tell.

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