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What do you do?

When you are caught up with a girl. Different schools. But you know shes a player, shes real cute. Says cute things. Very fun to be around..sometimes answers your calls, sometimes not. Sometimes stops texting you for a reason you don’t know…but you know shes probably just looking for another game. But can’t seem to gether off your mind. Then what?

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Face offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

I don’t play around. I’m the hopeless romantic sort. All I’d do is find someone who fits.

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mayneverkno offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

I thought the question was going to be “for a living”…. I had a good answer too!

Regular guy by day, and super hero by night!

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OK to your question… if you REALLY like her… figure out WHY. If its more than just physical or attention, then tell her so… see how she responds.

Unless, if all you want is physical stuff and attention… in which case, sounds like your set!

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10 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Haha. Too bad it wasn’t huh.
So if i only like her for appearence and for her attention im set? Even though she ignores me sometimes?…I don’t quite understand..

mayneverkno wrote:
I thought the question was going to be “for a living”…. I had a good answer too!Regular guy by day, and super hero by night!…………OK to your question… if you REALLY like her… figure out WHY. If its more than just physical or attention, then tell her so… see how she responds.Unless, if all you want is physical stuff and attention… in which case, sounds like your set!

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mayneverkno offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

well if all you want is attention and to be physical with her… then the emotional commitment shouldn’t really matter to you… (some guys are into that) and if your saying shes a player, shes prob into that also.

For me, Im like rumpel though… “hopeless romantic”… I guess for us its more about finding someone who can emotionally fit us as well.

Good luck!

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

have you hung around her a few times?

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Vern offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

Yes, in fact, this past tuesday. But it was really akward because there was another guy and girl with us that i just that day met, and later that night she told me they werent supposed to be there and next time it would be just us. But it doesn’t seem like theres going to be a next time…

JAG10 wrote:
have you hung around her a few times?

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

maybe try making plans with her? make sure shel answer you by making plans in person or something

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Vern offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (58 minutes after post)

yahh. I’ll try that. i just rarely see her since different schools and all.

JAG10 wrote:
maybe try making plans with her? make sure shel answer you by making plans in person or something

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