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Would it be really immature of me to delete yet another guy off facebook, just to cause him mild annoyance?

He used to be all about me for years & recently changed his mind once I decided to FINALLY give him a chance. Now he just comments all over this one girls pictures all day and night & is allegedly trying to be a really friend to me for once since he was a crappy one before. He said when I thought he was a good friend he was crazy about me & isn’t anymore so now he claims he’s actually going to try to be a good friend. It’s annoying as f*** to see him flirting w. this girl via facebook all day back and forth the way he used to w. me. He said that he eventually realized that he just wanted me sexually, but subsequently realized he wants to be around me even though he’s in another city now for work (coming back eventually).. so now he wants to be friends. wtf super immature to delete him right? I deleted the lastv guy I dated and broke it off w. and now I kinda regret it. lol. Ahh super immature post I know. blah. what should I do. The jerk is seriously all over this girl and I KNOW he does some of it to make me jealous even if he doesn’t want me anymore just because of the torture I put him through for supposedly denying him for so many years. advice please.

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

yes Don’t go in facebook and dont check on him there

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11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

So i shouldn’t delete him? I should just keep him there & try not to check as often? Even though facebook’s stalkerish homepage often shows me their interactions before I even go to my own profile…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Hahaa… I know how you feel but it won’t last long.. Just try and forget about it.. If you delete him, there’s no way you can gossip about the other girl’s photo that he’s commenting. Bit*h about her to your friends if it makes you feel better. (I AM GIVING BAD IDEAS HERE)

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11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

lmao no .. not bad ideas I already do the b*****ing to my best friend part about the comments they leave each other. haha. :] Thank you PaDLe :) I am so annoyed I thought of doing it but said NO.. go talk to ppl on help.com instead & see what they think. haha. thanks for keeping me from acting stupidly! :]

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11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

should I be friends w. him or just ignore him?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Well, be friends but keep it casual.. that’s what you want to do too right?

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11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

yea. so eventually he’ll go crazy for me again and I’ll go about denying him.. again. haha. I need our roles to go back to how they used to be!! Lol! He goes out of his way to be vindictive & I don’t. So now I’m feeling petty & want to be vindictive too (terrible i know!). Ahh im going down to his level. lol. I’ll charm the hell out of him & drive him to the mad house. hahaha I’m evil I know :( Hopefully I’ll stop feeling jealous & get over him. So I can kill his little heart all over for doing this to me! lol

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11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

I’ll keep it casual :] should I avoid casually flirting w. him? since he’s over me and all over the girl? I don’t want him to get an ego and think I like him.. even if i do a bit

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Girls.. I know.. That’s what we do. Being evil and mean. and you know what, there’s nothing sweeter than revenge. (BAD BAD THOUGHT)

Anonymous wrote:
I’ll keep it casual :] should I avoid casually flirting w. him? since he’s over me and all over the girl? I don’t want him to get an ego and think I like him.. even if i do a bit

You can try casually flirting but see how he reacts to it,.. if he seem to like it, then you can try to be more intimate or something.. Best Women Win.

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11 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Lmao. Yes! I’m not usually into revenge but effff that! lol. I’m all about it now. Should be fun.

& yea I’ll try the flirting w. caution & see how he reacts. I will win! It’s just a matter of time till this thing w. that girl dies down. I won’t let you down! lol. Thank you! :)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (35 minutes after post)

No prob.. ahahaha.. I wish I can see your flirting skills on facebook!! :D

I’m sure you will win because you own the game!!

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11 months ago (42 minutes after post)

lmao no I won’t flirt w. him on facebook b.c. that’s too public & we have too many mutual friends. His ego will inflate & he’ll feel WAY too special & I know the girl he started flirting w. so I don’t want him to feel sooo important that multiple girls are like fighting over his attention on facebook. I’ll appear busy (or rather yet actually BE busy) talk to him through instant messaging and flirt accordingly that way.

You got me excited about this! lol. thx thx thx :)

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PaDLe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (44 minutes after post)

No prob.. I know how you feel!! :D

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 months, 1 week after post)

i kinda had the same situation except it went to harassment, but if you are really annoyed just delete him. I finally brought myself to do it.

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