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okay hit me :P……

so go on whats wrong with your day super woman? or is it wonder woman?

What exactly is wrong 2Hazel? We’ll listen to you :)

2Hazel wrote:
Wonder Woman. I have my lariat of truth but it doesn’t work online. My husband complains alot and I’m kind of bad tempered so there he is complaining about every blessed thing and I like a ninny yell shut up you idiot! or something similiar.It just bursts out of me right in front of our little son. Now I’m just done for the day.

Meh, every man knows its a womans write to shout abuse at him, so dont worry there.

im currently not doing the housework, and drinking a cold beer and listening to AC/DC instead, just to ive her something to complain about. That way, she can get rid of her stress in a healthy, loud way.

well sorry your son was there. but good for you! you have to remember us men are complicated machines, that need a fine slap every now and then!

and thank you you dont seem to sad yourself :P……

so apart from the whole wonder woman moment, how was/is your day :)……

You need to do something to take your mind off it. Go for a brief walk somewhere or relax doing something you enjoy.

2Hazel wrote:
I enjoy talking to you guys, it’s nice to have friends for a change. We were just laying in bed enjoying a good reading aloud session by my husband and then he’s like you smell funny, and then I say you look funny, then he says where are my dogs and how come the house is so cold and I say heat is expensive and could we get a break from the dogs? He says okay but then it is where is my bathrobe belt and then I say I don’t know and then some stupid verbage from the expert at verbage and then I’m yellin like a banshee and he ripped my sons book in two in anger. Then he explains he has a big job tommorow and his back hurts and I’m still pissed off so I angrily reply. Any opinions on this moronic exchange would be appreciated.

Its perfectly healthy! when you have ANY stress, then you relieve it on the person that you see the most and you trust the most to listen, its only natural. The only way round this is if you both agree to sit down and talk about whatever issues you have at a certain time in a day, which means you wont have to do it at night and then lose sleep over it.

Argueing over little things is just a sign of a working relationship :)

wow that sounds amazing. i mean moronic is correct, but its so unique how it started.
why dont you just go and apologise to him, and ask how his back is? i know you think he was in the wrong, and he probably was. and although he knows you might be hurting from it. he’s the one with the bigger ego! so he might just hide his face and shame, and wait for it to blow over/

I think you should probably talk to him about it to try settle things. You should also get him to apologize to your son for ripping his book in half.

dont worry about it :)……………..

take care and be well

-Matthew.

Well that’s OK then. I hope things settle down afterwards for you.