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Give me something to do

I’m going through a little struggle right now
more or less, i got dumped
but i’ll be okay
i just need a bit of time is all

But for now i would like to find something to do just to help keep my mind busy
anything that is just kind of….i dunno
satisfying
like i’m doing something worthwhile

any suggestions?

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Go to meetup.com

Find a bunch of social groups doing stuff you haven’t done before.

Go. Keep going. Talk to everyone. Ask them lots of questions.

I did this the very night I got dumped and had great conversations with two women. I felt so much better. When you feel down, exercise and socialize.

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fem1p offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Sorry about that hugs for you,{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}Hope you feel better soon.

Maybe could try to talk to people here either by helping or by posting and talking back just like you did.I find it helps me thats why Im here for both help and maybe to help back.

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4 years, 4 months ago (39 minutes after post)

take a weekend off, and travel to another state for the weekend, new york, san francisco, california, las vegas. go skydiving, scuba diving, get a membership at the gym. go to the Zoo and do one of those animal-interaction activities where you can pet the animals. go to disneyland, go to sea world, go to sixflags, go bungi jumping, get a make over, buy outfits that you never tried to wear before…

btw, are you a girl or guy?

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nicolev offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

i’m a girl
thanks for all the advice. I like the meetup website
but i gotta wait a few weeks before i can really participate

yeah i love help.com
i’ve kinda gotten an addiction to this site

and i really dig all the suggestions about traveling for a bit, but i’m short on the green stuff
so i’ll stick with the latter stuff

thanks for everything

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