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baby_girl_twin_2005
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Marshalltown, IA, US

hey guys and girls listen up i have a major problem

and i need your attention theres this guy i am going out with and he does teakwondo with me and we have been going out for a month now but well its hard to put in words see we have been dateing off and on five times but thats only because we get in fights and i cant stand someone who gets into fights with me i hate it as a matter of fact but anyways heres the deal me and him dont go to the same school and dont get to see each other a lot only on mondays and wednsdays and that means that i start to crush on other boys and then i want to break up with him because i like another i dont know what to do can you please help me

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baby_girl_twin_2005 offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Marshalltown, IA, US | 3 years ago (2 minutes after post)

by the way i cant help crushing on other boys it not my falt that i do it just happens

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schoolboy offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Alexandria, VA, US | 3 years ago (5 minutes after post)

i think you sghould break up with him because you say you have another crush and mabey because you two only see two days a week he could be having crush;s too. sorry do not now anything eles to do. good luck

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cupid x offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Oakland, CA, US | 3 years ago (7 minutes after post)

tell him how u really feel about him just sit down and talk about what is happening(srry about grammer don’t care about it)

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animal offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 3 years ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Theres already a pattern of splitting up, and getting back together. If you decide to split with him, stick to it. Crushing on other boys is natural. Its also a way of telling you hes not the one for you. What is it about him that you like?

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baby_girl_twin_2005 offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Marshalltown, IA, US | 3 years ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

the thing i like about him is that he is nice and doesnt make fun of me and understands what i am going through you know what i mean

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animal offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 3 years ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

Thats good. What do you two fight about that makes you break up?

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 3 years ago (4 days, 21 hours after post)

break up, i you have other crushes then your mind is telling you you love him not your heart

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cupid x offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Oakland, CA, US | 3 years ago (2 weeks after post)

don’t break up tell him ur problem maybe he will understand and if he gets mad then that means maybe u should break up. o ya don’t bring any friends it will mess up everything and get him tick .it is personal.

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animal offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 12 months ago (2 weeks after post)

Telling the guy your dating that you are thinking of other guys will end the relationship.

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1_Hyu-Hinata_1 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

well i would just break up with him especially if he gets in fights with,but don’t say you like some1 else cuz he will lose his respect for you ,but i don’t think he’s worth have a relationship with

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

i think you should tell him how you feel, maybe he has the same problem 2. and mabe he’ll understand and if he doesn’t, well there is just one thing u can do- invite him over and cook breakfast for him. make a nice hot pot of grits and say good mornting… then when he sits down and gets all nice and comfortable throw the pot of grits on him and get ur skillet and as u do it then swat- thats called grit ball. then break up with him, he doesn’t deserve 2 have a girlfriend anyway if he doesn’t understand. and if you don’t want 2 do that then just invite him over more often if ur 2 worried about losing him.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

one thing u should know is that all good relationships have their difficulties. there are always gonna be some disagreements. HOWEVER, it sounds like this happens way too often which means there is a lack of trust. u two need to either talk it out (play nicely) or just really think about why u are together and f that is the best decision for you. and if u only see him twice a week, at the most, then try to work out other dates to hang out or keep on seeing eachother so limitedly. one thing is for sure though and that is that it is perrrrrrrfectly normal that u are interested in other people when u see him so little.

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