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Hello all, I’m looking for anyone’s insight.

I am a 19 year-old college student and this summer I’m planning on moving out of my parents’ house and into an apartment with my current college roommate and my boyfriend of three years. However, my father is very protective and demands that my boyfriend and I make a budget to plot out our money, and he says I have to ‘include bills you wouldn’t normally think of’. That’s where you come in… anyone who lives on their own, what kind of bills should I look forward to? Any and all help is greatly appreciated.

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disgruntled offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I use the following categories to help me budget my cash. I take each bill and break it down into weekly costs, and round it up to the closest 10, so that I’m never short of the amount, then I pay the weekly amounts into a bank account I have solely for paying bill, which helps me not spend the money! I have 2 accounts in total. One for the bills, and the other for food, entertainment, clothes, etc. I also have a saving account. Any money that’s left over after I’ve budgeted for the week is paid into that account, so if I ever need cash, I have a 3rd reserve without actually dipping into the money saved for bills.

- rent
- water bills
- gas bills
- electricity bills
- council tax
- mobile phone (cell phone) costs
- landline phone and internet
- television license/cable costs
- travel costs (insurance for car, petrol, mot, road tax, etc etc if you have a car, or the cost of bus passes or rail tickets)
- basic food costs (it’s my approximate weekly cost of food shopping)
- entertainment budget (I allow myself the cost of 1 night out a week at approx £40 a night and the cost of getting a takeaway once every 2 weeks)
- clothes budget

I think that’s everything. If I can think of anything else I budget for, I’ll add it on!

Good luck with moving, your father is right to make you think about a budget, if you can learn how to spend your money well now, then when you’re earning, you can live comfortably off a budget, and still save a lot of money. You’ll thank him when you can afford 2 holidays a year because he made you budget!

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Green Knight offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Apart from the usual rent, utilities (gas, electricity, water, telephone), food, clothing, essential consumables (toilet paper! etc.)…TV licence, insurance, rainy-day stuff (something in case your fridge breaks down, etc.), travel costs, luxuries (spending money!)…it really depends on your lifestyle. If you’re gonna have pets…all the stuff for them (including vet bills/insurance).

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MortallyWounded offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Number one, I wouldn’t say your father is too protective. Good budgeting is missing in too many American homes today. Good budgetting is only good sense.

Now for your question: Budget for entertainment. Surely you will rent movies once in a while, etc. Budget for vehicle break-downs, oil changes, etc. You don’t want break-downs, but they happen! Budget for eating out. Surely once in a while you grab something to eat on the run! Hope that gets you thinking!

Best wishes on your move!

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Use a spreadsheet (like the free one in google docs). I introduced my wife to spreadsheets and she made amazing budgets. The budgets were great tools. We never had debt problems and life was actually better.

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Saestra offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (5 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Thank you all for your input! Thank you lunixya, I was looking for some type of spreadsheet to start my budget.

Luckily for us, we’re moving into a place owned by a family friend, so cable, internet, and water are all included in the rent bill.

Any other ideas of little money drainers would be greatly appreciated.

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Chicago, IL, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 days, 10 hours after post)

disgruntled wrote:
I use the following categories to help me budget my cash. I take each bill and break it down into weekly costs, and round it up to the closest 10, so that I’m never short of the amount, then I pay the weekly amounts into a bank account I have solely for paying bill, which helps me not spend the money! I have 2 accounts in total. One for the bills, and the other for food, entertainment, clothes, etc. I also have a saving account. Any money that’s left over after I’ve budgeted for the week is paid into that account, so if I ever need cash, I have a 3rd reserve without actually dipping into the money saved for bills.

- rent
- water bills
- gas bills
- electricity bills
- council tax
- mobile phone (cell phone) costs
- landline phone and internet
- television license/cable costs
- travel costs (insurance for car, petrol, mot, road tax, etc etc if you have a car, or the cost of bus passes or rail tickets)
- basic food costs (it’s my approximate weekly cost of food shopping)
- entertainment budget (I allow myself the cost of 1 night out a week at approx £40 a night and the cost of getting a takeaway once every 2 weeks)
- clothes budget

I think that’s everything. If I can think of anything else I budget for, I’ll add it on!

Good luck with moving, your father is right to make you think about a budget, if you can learn how to spend your money well now, then when you’re earning, you can live comfortably off a budget, and still save a lot of money. You’ll thank him when you can afford 2 holidays a year because he made you budget!

-Medical bills
-Life Insurance
-dental Insurance
-Eye care

Most of these your job may cover.

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