Love help: so first off i need to tell you some background before i get to the point so you all understand. - Help.com

so first off i need to tell you some background before i get to the point so you all understand.

ok so my girlfriend was married for a year to this guy and she lwft him for me basically she was still married for about 4 mo while we were dating. we have almost been together for a year now and things are getting harder and harder she expects me to be home all the time like im married to her and i dont want to hurt her but i dont want to be home all the time im only 21 and shes 24 ready to settle down and start a family but not ready to commit to another marriage, im soo confused on what to do she is kind of crazy and im afarid if i go to her and say that i need more space that she will do something drastic. i have tried to talk to her but there is no talking to her its like its either her way or no way like shes the boss of me and i dont like that. i feel like she is one of my parents. i can understand y she would want to be with me because were together but i cant stand being around her 24/7 im going insane. she borke up with me 4 days ago and we really havnt talked much. she acts like nothing happened and things are back to normal. oh and theres this guy friend i have that i have known since i was 15 and she calls him my boyfriend becuase we like to hang out and she gets mad every time i want to hang out with him. ive told her to stop numerous times but she wont she just cant accept that i have a guy friend. also she still talks to her ex-husband a lot and i have told her it make me upset and i dont know what to do anymore……. can you please help me

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kittysecretar offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

She’s controlling, possessive and insane. RUN!!

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

You should leave the relationship. It sounds like your girlfriend is insecure and controlling as a result of her insecurity. She may have been hurt before. At the same time it sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. You are young and time does not rewind leave and enjoy your life. Find a person that is confident and willing to hang with you and your friends as well as hang out with her friends and not require so much attention. NO KIDS WITHOUT TRUE LOVE AND MARRIAGE. You are asking for drama with the drama queen.

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