so first off i need to tell you some background before i get to the point so you all understand.
ok so my girlfriend was married for a year to this guy and she lwft him for me basically she was still married for about 4 mo while we were dating. we have almost been together for a year now and things are getting harder and harder she expects me to be home all the time like im married to her and i dont want to hurt her but i dont want to be home all the time im only 21 and shes 24 ready to settle down and start a family but not ready to commit to another marriage, im soo confused on what to do she is kind of crazy and im afarid if i go to her and say that i need more space that she will do something drastic. i have tried to talk to her but there is no talking to her its like its either her way or no way like shes the boss of me and i dont like that. i feel like she is one of my parents. i can understand y she would want to be with me because were together but i cant stand being around her 24/7 im going insane. she borke up with me 4 days ago and we really havnt talked much. she acts like nothing happened and things are back to normal. oh and theres this guy friend i have that i have known since i was 15 and she calls him my boyfriend becuase we like to hang out and she gets mad every time i want to hang out with him. ive told her to stop numerous times but she wont she just cant accept that i have a guy friend. also she still talks to her ex-husband a lot and i have told her it make me upset and i dont know what to do anymore……. can you please help me
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