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How do I get my girlfriend to be honest with me?

I asked her if she still likes me and told her I’d be okay with any answer she chose. I didn’t want to her be in a relationship she wasn’t enjoying. She said she did but I can tell that she doesn’t.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

If you’re insecure and needy, she’ll get turned off.

Why not go out and do a bunch of confidence-building stuff? Exercise, social groups, biking, running, swimming. Stop focusing on this girl. You’ll feel much more confident and plenty of girls will be attracted to you.

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I Hate Women offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

the only way to get a girl to tell the truth is not to ask her a question. if things don’t seem right they usually aren’t. sorry mete move on I’m having to.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Who says she isn’t already being honest with you?
If she wasn’t happy, why would she still be with you?

And, if you can ‘tell’ she’s not happy, why are you asking her and not doing something else like ending the relationship?

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10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I Hate Women wrote:
the only way to get a girl to tell the truth is not to ask her a question. if things don’t seem right they usually aren’t. sorry mete move on I’m having to.

agreed

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