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so im stuck between a rock and a hard place !

there are so many obstacles in the way ****!

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littledino offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

sounds like you need to vent, that would also help us help you.
so whats the problem?

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just susan offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (23 minutes after post)

im not sure of where to start but for one im a million miles away from my daughter whos going to be 3 this year and i dont know if im going to have enough money to make it to be with her shes with her dad and their waiting for me

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Help me with: i dont know anymore about anything, my life has been so messed up but now it just got worse with a cherry on top.
mogck1 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

just susan wrote:
im not sure of where to start but for one im a million miles away from my daughter whos going to be 3 this year and i dont know if im going to have enough money to make it to be with her shes with her dad and their waiting for me

anyway the father would go in a little bit to help??

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littledino offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

hmmm, are you in the military or just away for a job? i would say start working over time. and yeah, ask the dad for help too. if he is willing

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just susan offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

no,lets just say that things didnt go as planned. in short he doesnt have a job yet! like he said he would!!!!!! And me i do facials and cosmetics for a living and it just isnt making the money i need fast enough,im on call for most of my job! i havent seen my daughter in about 2months and i feel so alone
its just killing me to think i might have to make a big decsion in my love life with her father cause we arent getting any where. what should i do? i do love him alot! but my daughter needs better! what to do should i stick it out?

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littledino offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (35 minutes after post)

that is a hard one. it sounds like you need to have a heart to heart with the father. it isn’t fair to you to have to do all the work, and then not see her, and then give up love all at once. but you’re right, the kid does come first.
talk to him, and see what he has to say. he really does need to get a job, no excuses.

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just susan offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (42 minutes after post)

i have hes so hard headed!!! and that is what makes it harder to say anything,he is looking for a job i do know that, but i dont know if it will be good enough(im not saying to make millions or so but lets just say a fastfood job is not going to make enough for the future and we’re not that young anymore i have other problem to worry about not money) but im sure people there know what i mean by this! yeah so thats the thing

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just susan offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (43 minutes after post)

what is a possible outcome to the situation? somebody tell me !?!?!?

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