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I need to inspire some fun in my group of friends, but what can we do.

Since we’ve left school and many friends have left for uni there is a main group of 4 of us left as best mates. But recently we’ve been getting bored. Recently I feel I am worthless to the group. Two of them has a car each, the other has a place for us to stay, chill and relax. Unlike them I cant offer anything, I can just tag along. We are also all low on money.

i’d like to try and get things moving and get us having fun, but I cant say come back to mine, nor hey Ill drive us here. Recently all weve been doin i shangin in the car and driving to sum supermarket. We enjoy the company but we realise were stuck in a groove. What can we do? What can I do to help the group?

Maybe some of your advice can help me, and maybe some of your experiences can be of use. Thanks for reading at least. :)

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10 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Yea, I know exactly how that feels. In HS when my group of friends really had nothing to do we basically drove around for hours after school it was the same way just kind of stuck because we had basically done everything there is to do where we lived and doing the same thing over and over was kind of boring and just about pointless……We all ended up decided we have to get out and move somewhere else so our only ticket out was going to a university in the area and since then its been great never a dull moment

You should try it or at least get a degree while being bored so that way you make more money and then (money usually solves the being bored)

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

I’m on a gap year so will be going to uni, but I just don’t want our last time together to be dull. It’s not that we don’t enjoy it, we do, but we need something else. :)

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