depression help: Someone, please help me. - Help.com



This post left anonymously

Someone, please help me.

I’m so depressed. I’ve got no idea what I should do. I need to seriously vent.

This girl is stealing my life, literally stealing it and I feel as though no one likes me anymore.

I’m getting stupid and I can’t play guitar yet and I starting to feel really negatively about my appearance.

I just really don’t like myself right now. Everybody has friends and gangs and I don’t feel comfortable with any of my friends anymore, even though most of them are great.

My beautiful little hamster is going to do soon- and she’s so goddamn chirpy and gorgeous even though she’s got cancer. Look at me in comparison- I’m whining because I “don’t have any friends”.

This isn’t me- other people don’t validate me. It’s just that… I suppose I had everything I wanted such a short time ago and now EVERYTHING SUCKS.

This open post was written 10 months, 4 weeks ago | V/U/S: 82, 6, 2 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (2)

depression, self issues (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (6)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

HelpBot offline Verified User (0 minutes) Shouts: 2 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

If you are contemplating suicide, hurting yourself, or you are seriously depressed: please, seek professional help!

Call this hotline (1-800-273-8255) operated by our friends at the
Suicide Prevention Lifeline, anytime, for free, professional, and
confidential assistance. While other Help.com users are likely to reply
to your post, please make sure you understand that your use of Help.com
falls under our TOS.

Note: I’m a robot that the Help.com staff created. If this response is in error, I apologize, please ignore it.

Kwstar offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

What is this girl doing to you to steal your life?

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: i made a promise to myself last night that my self harm would end tonight (last night) but i don’t know how to stop it.
Anonymous #
10 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I did well in school and she tried to compete. She was doing well in school then I got obsessed with dieting and got really unhealthy- she actually ended up doing the same, dropping to a very low weight.

We both got over it. I get right into music, more publically than I used to be and she starts going on about it, too.

Now she wants my new friends- people that she didn’t like, couldn’t understand why I spoke to- she’s even been flirting with the guy I like.

I’m paranoid, petty and pathetic. I feel horrible moaning about her but please try to understand that I feel as though I’ve got nothing left outside of my family and nowhere left to go.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Kwstar offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Ok that is really annoying! Just try to remember that true friends won’t dump you even if they befriend this new girl. And know that no one can take away your life. You have to have the courage to stand up for yourself. Let her know how you feel, tell her that you don’t like her copying you etc. She needs to know that you are being affected deeply by her actions. Remember you control your own life and your actions don’t ever let anyone take away that power from you!

This has been marked as a favorite reply 1 times. (1) Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: i made a promise to myself last night that my self harm would end tonight (last night) but i don’t know how to stop it.
Anonymous #
10 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Things have been so awkward with my friends recently. I just don’t seem to know what to say to them anymore and I don’t know why. I’m completely confident and social and never in my life have I had trouble talking to people; strangers or friends.

I’ve even lost that.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Kwstar offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Don’t say you lost it becasue you can always get it back. Tell your friends how you feel hiding things doesn’t help anyone, especially you!

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: i made a promise to myself last night that my self harm would end tonight (last night) but i don’t know how to stop it.

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.