breaking up help: crush Vs Boyfriend which one to you pick ?

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crush Vs Boyfriend which one to you pick ?

Before I started going out with my boyfriend I had a big crush on this other boy. Well know i have been going out with my boyfriend for a four months and I’m starting to like this other boy again but i love me boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt anyone

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legidaddy 0 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 3 years, 7 months ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

ummmmm… well this ones hard. the moral thing to do is stay with you boy friend, but in this imoral sasiety that doesent mean much, and seance you may be with him for a while i sugest you go with the cruch, but in the end its your choice, you could go with bouth, i dident sugest that though ;)
best of luck, legidaddy

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julian.mallet 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (10 hours, 10 minutes after post)

does your bf know about the other guy?

also, how much do you know about the other guy? do you talk to him / get along well? or is he just hot? :-) I mean, physical attraction is great, but unless you have something in common it certainly not worth leaving your bf for…. on the other hand if you know him well, I’d go after him, cos it sounds like you’ve liked him for quite a while and it’s not going away.

i’m thinking you’ll have a hard time not hurting anyone but i think you’ve got to tell your bf if your attaction to the other guy is strong….

anyways…. that’s just my 2 cents… complete with complicating provisos no less…..

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SHREE 5 #
New Delhi, 07, IN | 3 years, 6 months ago (1 week after post)

Hi Friend,
I seems ur are very confuse and ur very week in decision making ! You are not able to
control ur self. As ur mentioned that u dont want to hurt anyone one ,then u have to choose any
one of them ,other wise both of them will get hurt ,rather than hurting both of them it is better
to compromise with any one of them ! I hope u understood my point ! Still heart is heart !
Listen ur heart first and then apply ur mind

Have a Nice Day!
You can always email me on (email removed).
Bye

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dhinnant8 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

choose ur boyfriend. u won’t be hurting ur crush because he’s not with you, which means it shouldn’t bother him that much. if ur crush asks u out, that’s somethin different. i had the same problem.

steponthis 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

i think you should find out if your crush likes you, because you have to think if you did leave your boyfriend for your crush would he go out wiht you? and also if he didnt would your b/f come back to you?

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nguyen002 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

I’m not sure what you should do. However, I can tell you this. I was dating this guy for awhile and then I had a crush on another guy. We hooked up and then I decided that my ex bf cared a lot for me and that’s something I may not get with this “crush.”

Anyways, long story short. I had to beg my ex to take me back. Afterwards, it was not the same. We had major trust issues and what not. I think that if you are with someone, you should never give them any belief that one day you guys might not be together.

Is a crush worth it? First, you don’t even know if he likes you. Second, how do you know that he will/can treat you better than your current boyfriend?

Whatever you do, just take your time. Why not take it slow and sees if your feelings for this crush continues after a month or two, before you take the notion to break up with your current boyfriend. Bye

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

i think you should stay with your boyfriend, a crush is nice but it may be very differant if you went out and you would hurt your boyfriend so much. the crush will go

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (3 months after post)

plz plz dont go 4 the crush believe me on this 1.
i was goin out wiv dis boy 4 bout a month nd i had a crush on dis other boy in the end i started flirting wiv him n my boyfriend thought i waz goin 2 dump him so he dumped me first.
i went out wiv my crush 4 bout a week and realised i didnt reely lyk n i dumped now iv got no-one!:(

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allzvanity 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

OH! What a tangled web we weave!…, you need to “Choose One. ask the others to be “Friends. you are playing with people. c
Careful, it might blow up in your face. You may end up with none of the above. Then it is too late! you may see witch one you did care about. It could be 2little 2late. :)
BU

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rina_1055 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Guess that you really dont love your boyfriend. If you did then this “crush” wouldnt even be second thought. If you cant choose then you dont need either one. Get it together..

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salsagirl15 #
Plano, TX, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

ok…….it depends on how much you love you rboyfriend and how long u have been goin out and what u do with these otehr guys
ohh and definatly ur age

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