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I like someone and i should,nt like this person.

I have really really been liking someone for over a year now, and i cant help it. I cant tell you who it is, because my mother checks what i do on the internet. But liking this person is just so so wrong. i dont want to be attracted to this person at all. This person can be really rude and boring, But I just cant stop liking this person and I really want to stop be attracted to this person. Please help me. help me not like this person anymore.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Your not…related to them are you?

beleive it or not Ive seen that here before like three times…

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe you are attracted to this person because they feel free to be the way you wish you could be. Maybe you feel too controlled by your parents and you want to challenge them by liking this rude and boring person. Life is a lot more fun when you realize these silly games your brain plays on you.

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deathfairyx_ offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Your not…related to them are you?beleive it or not Ive seen that here before like three times…

thats wat my aunt and uncle r….

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

ur aunt and uncle are a couple?

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Yankee offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tacoma, WA, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

If you can’t get a person out of your head. Maybe they’re supposed to be there! =}

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deathfairyx_ offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I know how it is liking someone ur parents hate… he he… but i love loving him… so its kinda diffrent… but i agree with Linuzya… its true you may like them cuz’ ur parents dont

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deathfairyx_ offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

PlaymateBrittan wrote:
ur aunt and uncle are a couple?

Married with 4 kids…..

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

well if they are attracted to each other then so be it

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

and i dont like this person because my parents dont like them. i am just so attracted to this person.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

deathfairyx_ wrote:

PlaymateBrittan wrote:
ur aunt and uncle are a couple?

Married with 4 kids…..

those poor children…

With all due respect, Ewww.

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deathfairyx_ offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

then date them… forget wat ur parents say… =D… i always do!

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deathfairyx_ offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:

deathfairyx_ wrote:
PlaymateBrittan wrote:
ur aunt and uncle are a couple?
Married with 4 kids…..
those poor children…With all due respect, Ewww.

lol… i know.. brother and sister married with 4 kids… ewww!!!… but the kids dont know….

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

deathfairyx_ wrote:

Nante wrote:
deathfairyx_ wrote:
PlaymateBrittan wrote:
ur aunt and uncle are a couple?
Married with 4 kids…..
those poor children…With all due respect, Ewww.
lol… i know.. brother and sister married with 4 kids… ewww!!!… but the kids dont know….

Well lets just hope the kids don6t follow in their parents footsteps…

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deathfairyx_ offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:

deathfairyx_ wrote:
Nante wrote:
deathfairyx_ wrote:
PlaymateBrittan wrote:
ur aunt and uncle are a couple?
Married with 4 kids…..
those poor children…With all due respect, Ewww.
lol… i know.. brother and sister married with 4 kids… ewww!!!… but the kids dont know….
Well lets just hope the kids don6t follow in their parents footsteps…

hope and pray….

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

can someone just tell me not to like this person?

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

how is what i meant

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Well, first, give us a list of everything you find attractive, and then evrything you dont.

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I like how this person looks, acts, and i dont like how this person is rude sometimes, and boring. But this person can be fun, and is really sweet. Its mostly a physical attraction then like mentally and emotionally.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Just to be sure are you a boy or a girl?

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

girl

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Okay, well why wouldnt your parents like him?

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

they do like him, but they dont know i like him like that. i am like really stressing over this, i want to tell him i like him, but that will cause problems in the future. major problems

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Why will it cause so much trouble?

thats what Im not understanding, why is this so wrong?

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

it just is. iwould tell you but my parents check everything i do on here. so i cant.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

PlaymateBrittan wrote:
it just is. iwould tell you but my parents check everything i do on here. so i cant.

you can post it anonymously, and erase the post title and close it, dont worry this is a place where you can be honest.

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

i know how to post anonymously, but anytime i try deleting a post it wont let me.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

PlaymateBrittan wrote:
i know how to post anonymously, but anytime i try deleting a post it wont let me.

You cant delete them, but you can close them, you can do that after you get more help.

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PlaymateBrittan offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

wait, how do i close one?

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

right under your posting there is a light blue words thaty say close post do you see it?

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brieeex offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

omg i know what you mean and my friend is going thru the same thing except
he smokes and hooks up with the first girl he can get his hands on.
i think that you should just slowly eliminate times of the day that you talk to him that you text (if you can) and that you would normally be around him and stuff because then your going to miss him alot at first but then as you start doing things that will replace his time in your mind you will start forgetting and will start missing him less eery minute and eventually forget him for good. Maybe someday you guys can just be friends. but take it slowly, dont hurt yourself too muuch because of it.

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