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My sister is a very interesting person.

She likes to be oppisite of me so people know who we are apart.
She likes the whole “unique style of clothing (aka:what every unique person wears)lol” and she is bold and aggresive with her emotions. She can throw a good punch, but she wont at full force. And she def. likes to flirt with boys…but not recently.
She has been dating for a long while this boy. (she is 15 by the way I am 17) and he recently was living at our house because he got “kicked” out (I think he walked out) of his mom’s house (parents seperated). This boy smokes (not saying its makes a person bad) and he is very emotional and seems to walk away from problems. I am even afraid that he might attempt suicide if My sister breaks up with him.
But my mom is very moralized…if that is even a word. And she said that he has to leave because we can not support him and he is kind of a rude person and we have shown him kind of heart letting him in, and he just eats all our food and hangs with my sister downstairs and there rele isnt any bodning.
When my mom told them that he had to go he ended up walking out of our house instead of staying the last night to give him time. His sister found him walking around our neighborhood and took him home (he is 17 and a drop out) but its kind of a scary thought that he could possibly commit suicide or hurt my sister or even my mom.
I want my sister to find someone better but idk wat to say to a person like her who is in this rebllious state of mind…help
sorry so long…

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Californication offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

it sounds like this situation is out of ur hands

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i think she just needs some time, but i don’t really know her so it’s hard to tell… good luck! :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i was just like your sister and i’m still with that guy except he changed. he was the emotional crazy one that would occasionally abuse me. but why did i stay with him? bc i knew him like no one else did. that rude bad boy could really be someone completely different in the inside and you might not know it considering you are not dating him. If your sister won’t break up with him and swears she loves him sit down and talk to her one on one. Ask her why she is so attached to him and whether or not she really thinks she can handle being with such a guy DON”T EVER JUST TELL HER TO BREAK UP WITH HIM. At this age she is rebellious and NO means YES.

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MF_Dancer offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Well I beleive the boy wouldnt do anything to hurt my sister…its just hard to see him the way she does obviously.
I just wish I could get some feelings out of her…
I feel like I’ve lost a bond since she has been with him.
like a day ago I asked if she wanted to have fun and learn a duet together (i sing and she can manage) it was just going to be a bonding moment that I thot would be fun and a cool memory…
but she turned it down and i asked again today and the same thing happen…
i dnt want to lose a sister

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MF_Dancer offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (21 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
I don’t understand why would your mom allow a kid who is dating your sister to move in to your household. Now that he’s gone, good riddance. That sounded like a huge problem waiting to happen!

yea I kno and that is kidna scary…the problem part. and my mom said to me that she felt like she went insane when she allowed him to come him thats why she decided he had to go…

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

yea my boyfriend, mom, and I agree not to let him back in. My sister is grounded so she is mad at the world because she called mom and dad a Butt hole(but the A word instead). luckly his sis got him…but I think he just walked out to find a way to stay around my sister….argh
I just want to be able to talk to my sister like a sister should be able to…u know being able to keep secrets and have fun with out being mean lol.

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