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So, I’m just now starting to fall for this guy…

Sure, he flirts with me….but he flirts with everyone else.

Sure, he says he loves me, but he says that to everyone else.

Sure, he told my friend he thought I was hott, but what does hott matter compared to a beautiful person?

Sure, he’s not the cutest person in the world, but I can’t get him out of my head.

I am not a shallow person and I normally hate asking these sort of questions, but you know how it is when confusion sets in. I just need to know what to do.

He flirts with everyone and gives everyone those hugs and kisses that make my head spin, is he worth it?

But I know he’s a good guy, just what if he doesn’t like me?

How do I make this happen?

And a HUGE shallow thing I’ve never been able to get over: He’s shorter than me. I know, shallow, but does anyone think that’s weird? Rofl. I don’t really care, just another thing that my mind is trying to convince myself of. ::)

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Who cares if he doesn’t like you? Until you find out, you’re wasting a lot of emotions on him. Find out. If he doesn’t like you then you can say, “Well, that’s a short man for you!”

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abcdefghijklmnopqrsi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Hmmm.

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sparkyman offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

yeah you definitely need to talk to him… don’t keep trying to find out by yourself and just get him to say if he does or not.

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¡Nellie.Skywalker! offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Washington, DC, US | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

linuxya wrote:
Who cares if he doesn’t like you? Until you find out, you’re wasting a lot of emotions on him. Find out. If he doesn’t like you then you can say, “Well, that’s a short man for you!”

Hahaha!
Yes I agree, why go through the trouble of agonizing over him if he has no idea that you might have feelings for him? I used to do that all the time because I was awfully shy, but trust me, it’s not worth it. I say just go for it! Ask one of his friends or sneakily ask him yourself through a note or something. Ok, yes, it’s childish, but it works. He sounds like a real cutie and you guys might hit it off real well. Good luck!

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (36 minutes after post)

GEORGE LANDON?!

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imra2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

well according to me if u really like him with all your heart and u think u can be with him forever then make him like you. the easiest way of all to find out if he loves or likes u is dat tell him to do something for u which u think is a bit hard and he might say no. if he does it den he likes u other wise u can just be friends with him

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iohnm offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (50 minutes after post)

just ask him and get it over with.

pineing never helped anyone

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Last Straw offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Aha, I can’t seem to think of it as easy as all of this.

Sure, he might think it’s a possibility I like him. Of course we both say we love eachother, rofl, but he says that to every “cute” girl on the history of the planet.

He’s so flirtatious I’m just not sure if I am willing to give myself up for someone so…outgoing? LOL

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¡Nellie.Skywalker! offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Washington, DC, US | 1 year ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

fever dream wrote:
george landon?!

What?

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BubbleGum offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Gee, thats EXACTLY what situation i was in a few months ago, hed call me hot but my friends are hotter and he does flirt with me and everyone else too! oh yea and the guy is also shorter then me to! do i like know you or something?? lol :P…

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ixy2 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

I know what your going through…the guy i love was the same way..hes a flirt,…but you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel…thats what i did…ask him out for lunch or something…and i did that..and i came out to be that he cares for me..and the whole flirting thing with all the girls..is just something they do to make you want them more..because they know you want them..and it is something to make them feel better because of thier flaws..like being short..or not being the prettiest boy out there….

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