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I am rather careless even though I have checked my work several times.

What should I do to be more mindful?

I am also not very good at socialising. Few friends and can’t articulate myself very well. And quite disappointed with the politics and hypocripsy of people at work. Becos of my introvert nature, I always can’t outalk them.What shall I do?

My guy frens find me bothersome, silly and usually would leave m after a while. What’s wrong with me?

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Matt in England offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I always can’t outalk them.What shall I do?

you don’t have to. Speaking isn’t mandatory.

My guy frens find me bothersome, silly and usually would leave m after a while

what kind of silly? like child silly? how old are you? If you like to joke around, there’s nothing wrong with you, infact there’s something wrong with them for not wanting to joke around.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Hi Matt,

Thanks for your interest in my post. Maybe guys are generally more logical whereas I tend to crack “silly” and unimportant jokes. I am nearing 30. Feel so sad that I am so old, yet still so easily affected by others and didn’t accomplish much.

Sometimes, being outspoken is a means to protect oneself. And I think it’s also required in the business world. Else one would be seen as a weakling. I am not shrewd enough and can be quite blur. Feel so much like a loser and wondering what I can do about it.

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Matt in England offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

urm, are you in the business world? When you say you haven’t accomplished much, that’s in the perspective of who has the goals. If you achieve your goals, surely this means you’ve accomplished all you want?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 weeks after post)

its ok

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