Wrong help: Do you think it’s rite for a girl that’s in a relationship with a guy - Help.com

If you, the girl, are engaging in /intimate/ behavior with another, whether it be flirting, or getting emotional support from another man that should be coming from your partner, you need to rethink your priorities. Chances are you probably should make a decision whether you should be with your boyfriend or not. If you decide you love him, then cut it out and stop messing around with other guys. If the relationship is a platonic/friend relationship though, that is perfectly normal. It’s when she looks for love from another man that is a problem. If you’re the BF try to figure that out without ASKING her, if you’re the girl you know what to do.

I dont’ know if you’re a guy or a girl. If you’re a guy, you better not give your girl **** about hanging out with other guys. Your basic strategy would be to MEET these other guys, but not to MANDATE her on ANYTHING. You need to SIZE them up

Thats between the girl and her boyfriend. If its a friend shes had for a while and its not going anywhere of course. A girl cant just give up her friends who are boys just because she has a boyfriend. However if the guy has LIGITIMATE reasons to not want them hanging out alone then she should be willing to let it go. boyfriends come first.

It is only wrong if the girl is using the other boy for activities that should be the exclusive realm of her and her boyfriend. If it is just friendship and nothing more then it is no big deal. But I would let the boyfriend know about it ahead of time so that the girl doesn’t get her other boy into trouble since many boyfriends can get stupid jealous and assume the worst even when nothing happened.

Hey patrickcullen congrats on cleaning up and getting off drugs… I am in the military now so if you need a job the military is always interested in you. Best of luck with the girlfriend it is cool that you let her have friends. I am sure she needs to branch out at times. I hope you are able to get a job soon. Take care.

Well dude I would say that a guy shouldn’t need to put his foot down on any issue if he and his partner have a good relationship with open lines of communications. If you have your doubts about something she is doing or hanging around you should talk to her about your doubts and let her know how you feel. I am sure she will let you know how she feels too. No one should feel the need to put their foot down in a relationship because in a good relationship both partners know where the line in the sand is and would never cross it. If they do cross it then it isn’t a good relationship. I hope you have a wonderful relationship. Best of luck.