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Do the majority of guys notice/care about a little bit of a stomach on an otherwise outstanding looking girl?

Is the insecurity she shows more unattractive than a little, soft belly?

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alicia_smile23 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Guys maybe. Men NO!

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Jules22871 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

My husband thinks so. He hates it when I get going about my muffintop. But you have to realize, ours is a very visual world. Us gals are brainwashed into thinking if we are above a size 0 we are fat. So just let her know that you still like her just the way she is and she will stop worrying about her little belly jiggle.

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lulzapalooz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

I think a little insecurity can be endearing. To me you know you’re in love when you’re not ashamed of the things you’ve raised to be ashamed of.

I think if you’re dating morons, they’ll be morons. If you’re dating mature men they’ll overlook your flaws because they appreciate you’re overlooking theirs.

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soswizki offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

my girl has i muffin top and i think she is the most amazing woman. it isnt if they care. its if you care. if you want to do something and he doesnt like it because he thinks it makes him look bad then he isnt really in love with you….

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michelle.myal offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Reading, K7, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

unless the guy is intent on marrying a supermodel who will stay at size 0 for the rest of her life, NO!

my boyfriend loves that i have a little bit of weight on me. you have to remember as much as guys drool over the models in magazines, they like curvy women its been proven,
they don’t wana think that if they hug you too tight they will snap you and they like to have something to hold onto.

it just sounds like your getting a bit insecure and this is not meant to be mean but i think that is more to do with you than him. us women are our own worse enemy, we get it into our heads that we’ll never be as good as her and in actual fact if this person your question is relating to really cares bout you there will be no one better than you.

hope this helps xx

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10 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone!

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SparkyJones offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Victoria, BC, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

The hell with skinny girls. I think a little bit of weight is sexy. Michelle.myal is absolutely right. I like a little thickness.

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